Ejaculating on my face. Apologies in advance.

[WellWhatDoWeHaveHere]

Having recently got together with a very old/close friend, I've learnt he wants to almost always explode on my face or in my mouth. Whilst we both enjoy dominating the other at times, I haven't experienced my whole face/including eyes being covered. How do I manage/ prepare myself for this? Is it normal?

Normal in porn, I reckon.

Read he never comes inside me ten threads down - pretty much covers it

It doesn't have to become your normal if you don't like the idea. I would be inclined to tell him to purchase a blow up doll and ejaculate over her face instead.

You've only just got together which is a bit iffy in my opinion. Men like him are usually crap in bed and only interested in their own satisfaction.

Dont understand it. Sounds like a porn inspired thing. Best wear swimming goggles.

Pretty vanilla really.

As per anything with sex, stick to your boundaries though

Sounds like a fuck buddy situation to me.

I wonder whether men actually habitually and continually ejaculate into the face and eyes of someone they really love. Fine to do occasionally but the frequency and the eyes thing makes me think you are a FB as opposed to a potential wife

"Almost always" sounds pretty dire.
It's fine to do, yes it happens in porn but it has always happened outside porn too. Porn didn't invent it!
The problem is, it doesn't sound like you actually want to do it, so that's all the reason you need to not do it.

Be forewarned if you get it IN YOUR EYES IT STINGS LIKE HELL!!

That sounds dreadful. I'd be telling him to fuck right off with that

I wouldn’t describe it as “vanilla” for him to want to do it every time. It’s bordering on a fetish if it’s all he wants to do.

you need to watch out for eye weasels. suggest laboratory goggles.

Don't for the love of god get it in your eyes! Tell him to warn you when he's about to cum so you can close them. Have wet wipes ready so if it's on your eyelids, you can wipe it off before opening your eyes. Otherwise you can look forward to a good 12 hours of bloodshot eyes.

Facials and cum in mouth are pretty vanilla in my view. If you want him to finish somewhere else, tell him. If he sulks then that tells you he's more invested in his own pleasure than yours.

How much does he have coming out if your whole face is covered?!

Not normal in my book and not very respectful of you...how old are you both?

🤢🤢🤢🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣at the mask. You may need some wellies too if there's that much. Or a boat.

Coming on the woman’s face has long been a porn thing. It’s a bit of a power thing. Rather a shame if it’s now seen by younger women as “vanilla”.

I'd be questioning this if it was constant and something he always wanted to do.

It is a power thing and the whole point of it is dominance and degradation. Is it something you are comfortable with, OP? If not, you need to have a conversation about it.

Well it’s really good for the skin apparently. Rub it in and let it dry type of thing.

However if you’re not game tell him it isn’t happening. It stings like a bastard if it gets in your eyes and is a twat if it gets in your hair.

It is vanilla, no doubt about that.

The majority of the time DH comes in my mouth as I love to swallow, but sometimes he does come on my face and I like that too.

It just depends on what you like and what you're comfortable with. You could try it once to see if you like it, and if not, don't do it again. No big deal.

Doesn’t really matter if it’s seen as vanilla or not. If you like it, no worries. If you don’t, don’t do it. If you like it sometimes, go for that. Your call.

How old are you, WhatToDo? Just interested in whether it IS younger women seeing it as vanilla.

My man didn’t even know what a blow job was, never mind give one! How times change.

My NAN!!!

How old are you, WhatToDo? Just interested in whether it IS younger women seeing it as vanilla.

Both DH and I are nearly 30.