Cock ring, newbie does it give man pleasure and can you use it with condom?

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Total newbie, decided to shake thing up for Christmas and buy some sex toys for first time! Got starter pack vibrator, cock ring, lube but we use condoms... Some sheath thing for hand jobs.. What's the best sex toy for man pleasure and does cock ring do anything for you him? Maybe it's mainly for him I don't know...

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Oh no don't want him to last longer!! I got the vibration one so hopefully it won't!

OK throw the cock ring away. Actually throw the whole pack away and decide what you actually want.

It sounds from your OP that you want to sex to be over more quickly. Is that the case?

Perfect your oral/hand job game, then. Or your dirty talk game. Or whatever will actually make him ejaculate quicker.

Are you wanting to finish it sooner because he's got ridiculous stamina and you have to be up in the morning (so like 3+ hour sessions) or do you just not particularly like sex?

Is he shit in bed? Have you told him what to do to make things better?

Wait, does "total newbie" mean you're a virgin? Because if so my advice will change quite drastically.

No there timing between us us fine, ie I don't need or want anything for him to last longer. I assumed the ring just added pleasure for me and hopefully him!!

Miss lead is that to me

We use a ring. It does nothing for me - I didn’t think it was supposed to! It makes dp feel more. Makes it more sensitive for him (and bigger and last longer). But it has to be tight and the right size. I like it now because it makes it miles better for him (he has ed issues).

Oh ours isn’t vibrating- it’s solid metal. We use it for oral too- that’s nice because he’s bursting - damn he’s already gone to work

I got buzzing one. Oh well will try it! I just thought if anything may speed up a little I'm just surprised it's actual function seems to be slow down

I got buzzing one. Oh well will try it! I just thought if anything may speed up a little I'm just surprised it's actual function seems to be slow down

Cock rings are designed to delay ejaculation and enhance erections.

Again you're talking about speeding things up, although you previously said the timing was "perfect".

What is your actual goal here? Is he shit in bed and you're hoping a vibrating cock ring will actually get you there since he seems to be too inept?

Hi not the Ford, it not very friendly in this corner of mumsnet is it!!
Why have you felt the need to post such a rude response? If you have issues why not go and take them out elsewhere.

I suspect not the Ford has hit a sensitive spot for the op,,,..no pun intended.

Gosh! I was friendly OP. Well, I am friendly so I hope it comes across! Relax and enjoy- let’s face it, you’re hopefully going to have some fun experimentation.

Yeah NotThe stop asking the OP questions and trying to be helpful.

Take that issue elsewhere 😂

Some shitty responses here!

Cock rings have never done anything for my DH.

Other things you could look at - blindfold, soft cuffs, sexy clothes, games, feather tickler.
Have a look at Lovehoney - they've got a whole selection to choose from.

Helpful? Making unnecessary aggressive remarks? Calling me out as a troll? What's the point of a sex topic of you get attacked for asking a question about a device you have never used before.

Thanks to the normal posters! Akimbo thanks it's love honey that I have just brought some stuff from! I just thought it was something that would be amazing for him so it's a set back to learn that's not the point of it! It's a Christmas present as well so rather than here... Your prudish wife is giving you this amazing toy it's more like..
Maybe you have prem e.. This will make you last longer.

Green jumping from timing fine to shit in bed and can't get you there is childish shitty response.

Oh dear.

Awww, bless your widdle cotton socks OP!

So, again, what was your goal?

The goal was to add more fun to our sex life.

To treat dh, to give dh surprise.
Anyway! I found the sex topic guarded like primary!

Op - would you like me to talk to dp? Or have you gone off the whole idea!! He likes it - but as I say it has to be tight. It increases sensitivity hugely. Oral is amazing with it on. Just try it? He’s not going to be able to keep putting it on if he doesn’t like it. Good luck and bloody enjoy it

Which is most intimate blow job or sex?
Going down on her or sex?
Does it only matter where feelings are involved?
Not an affair question but a difference of opinion and wondered if male/female thing?