Big penis

[Illhavewhatsheshaving]

So I have been dating a lovely guy for about 6 weeks. By dating I mean we've been messaging and have met a handful of times. We get on really well and have a great time together.

Anyway, we had sex for the first time yesterday. He has a much bigger penis than I've had before. I was in a relationship for 9 years which ended almost 2 years ago. I've slept with a few guys since the break up. I haven't had sex for 6 months.

New guy was lovely about it and went a slow as I liked and we eased into it as it were. The sex was amazing btw. He also lasted longer than I have been used to and by the end I was getting quite sore. But the pleasure was more than the pain IYSWIM. I've also been quite sore since.

My question is will I get used to the size? Will it always be painful to start off with? And after? I'm not complaining really as the sex was great. I'm just curious really. Any experiences from anyone would be helpful. TIA.

Use lube might help him slip in easier. If your having regular sex your body will soon get used to it. You might be sore for the first few times though.

Thank you for the reply mummabear I thought about getting some lube as well

From my experience you do get used to it! Enjoy 😉

I have a good friend who is about 9" and the first few times it wasnt sore per se it was an odd feeling but i got used to it. Lube may also help you. Dont worry too much about it and you will be fine ;)

Well having had the pleasure of a foot long (I kid you not! My first reaction was is that even real? 🙈) in my time, I found some positions easier than others plus it really helped making sure I was really turned on beforehand. Be careful of positions where your cervix can be hit though as that can be v painful. But sounds like he knows what he's doing and is being respectful and making sure you are ok...so enjoy!

You must must must get some lubrication. The soreness is from friction, not his penis size.

Question....is it length or girth that caused the pain? DH is very well endowed length wise but not so girth wise. Don't get me wrong, it's no pencil but it's not super girthy. Lube helps with girth, but with length issues are only helped by position. Missionary is best, doggy is definitely worst!

He was large both girth and length. But the girth is the biggest I've had. I think it was painful to start with because it's been a while since I've had sex as well so we had to take it really slow to even get him all the way in but once we got going it was great. But also every time we changed position we had to ease it in again.

Definitely lube, lube, lube then!

My thoughts exactly. Gonna avoid the tingle lube though. My poor fanjo!

My DH isn't small but he's got far more girth than average, you certainly get used to it. It's good that he's respecting you and taking it slow! I'd agree with the other ladies a little lube can't hurt! (No pun intended)
After two children I'm glad my husband is on the thicker side (blush)