Is it normal to only be able to cum with oral sex?

[Userwithoutaname]

I enjoy sex with my bf, he has a lovely body and I enjoy the feel of it and watching him. The only way I can cum though is through oral sex. When he touches me it's either too hard or too soft .. I've tried telling him and he tries hard to get it right, but it's just not happening.

I should add that for years I found it hard to orgasm and it was an eye opener when my ex performed oral sex on me!

I can cum using a vibrator, but only with the rabbit ones and I have to touch my nipples at the same time.

I'm happy with this, but sometimes we want a quickie and it just isn't satisfying for me. In a way I don't mind, I just enjoy feeling and seeing his body, but he feels sad if I don't orgasm.

Yes, it's normal.

Totes normal

Yes, I think that is normal.

Normal 👍🏻

It's normal not to orgasm through penis-in-vagina sex.

Regarding oral sex vs fingers - in theory you (plural) need to practise, but if the practise is not enjoyable I can see why you wouldn't want to.

It's perfectly normal.

However, I do think you could try using a bullet vibrator during sex. He could play with your nipples at the same time. It might be enough to get you there.

I've tried a bullet before, sadly it does nothing for me.

When he is shagging you, get him to press down on your g spot from the exterior so that his penis rubs along it every time he thrusts.

What about if you touch yourself? You could do that while having sex.
My bf's the same when we have a quickie, I don't always orgasm and I'm fine with that. I still really enjoy it, but he feels a bit bad. Doing it from behind seems to work best for me, so that tends to be our default quickie position.
Your bf could always give you oral after to finish you off.

I don't know where my g spot is

I've tried touching myself, but in that position it doesn't work .. touching myself rarely works tbh. I know .. I'm a freak

All my life it's been difficult to orgasm. I've finally found a way with the rabbit, but apart from oral sex nothing much works.

You can buy rabbit ears vibrator that you can use on your clit during sex.