Hook up sites

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NC, because privacy.

I'm recently single (after a good while) and I cannot be dealing with another relationship. However, I like sex, so would like to find some people to indulge with.

I'm 39, and into many kinky/non-standard/weird things.

Where do I go on the internet these days to meet open minded people who want straightforward fun.

Asking here as I trust recommendations from mumsnetters.

Apparently fab swingers and fetlife.

Also, tinder! HTH

Ibet most of these websites are faked to lure gullible males into paying for memberships.

Try theadulthub.com OP.

I was in a similar situation a few years ago. Met some genuinely great, like minded and interesting people on there. (Of course there are the usual share of strange ones but no more than dating sites and at least their agenda is open )

I had some great meets and as a genuine woman you are in the minority so you're the unicorn who can take their pick of members to contact.

I can't say it was completely "no strings"'as I live with the final guy I met! 😂😂😂

But that was our choice and not our original intention.

Fetlife is packed with keyboard raiders, married men and men after really young girls imho. Shame.

Collarme (now renamed Collarspace if it's still around) worked very well for me. Fetlife was ok but you need your bullshitometer working for both of them as you would any kind of online dating site. It's totally worth the effort though - I met a couple of FWB over a course of years and then DH (although he started as a FWB).

I used to use the long-defunct informed consent site too which makes me feel very old!

Thanks all

Strangely normal is very similar to the old informed consent website. Not that much traffic but still worth a look

Swinging heaven is also a good one.

I'd avoid collar space like the plague, I love fetlife though. Depending on your end goal :)

A friend i know - she was on Killing Kittens site - apparently it's not just for parties, but for meetups