Really want to have sex but newly single

[Nikitasol]

Just that really. Split with ex 8 weeks ago and really missing swc. It was a big part of our relationship but have no idea how to go about getting some without having to wade through idiots and arse holes or crap and awkward encounters. Whats the way forward?

What is swc?

should say sex not swc

A close single friend might be the answer? I've done it before, no harm done & both had a good time

Tinder.

Tinder unfortunately is no guarantee of anything and no viable single male mates available currently. Or at least none whom I would feel enthused about doing it with.

What do you mean re Tinder? I'm not an evangelist or anything but I never had any difficulty a) finding a shag and b) narrowing down the options to someone attractive and easygoing. Maybe try a different app? Bumble? Happn?

there is nothing wrong with a single woman seeking sexual satisfaction of course. Life is too short to worry too much or procrastinate. Of course you have to find a nice considerate caring guy who will respect you and understand your needs.

You also need to consider your position in that of course there may be a danger of getting too attached to your secret lover when thats maybe not what you or him wants.

If it's just no strings sex you're after, fab swingers is your friend. So I've heard

Ya @WildBelle - doesn't OP just need to hang some wicker hearts and baskets near her front porch? The sex will come pouring in apparently

I've not heard that. I might try it

I do actually have those in my porch but with no inkling of what they really meant. Oooh hopefully that'll send out signals. Although I'm unfortunately at the end of a small cul de sac so it may only be the neighbours who get to enjoy that!