How to spice things up

[littlebeek]

So we've had a shit few weeks and the high emotions seem to have worked wonders for our sex life.

It's gone from once a week to 2/3 times a day and I don't want it to dwindle.

I've tried it on the kitchen table which didn't work much, but how else do you keep that flame going?

Try a little Dom/Sub fun. Tell your DP for the next month (or whatever period) you will do whatever he wants (inside your boundaries), whenever he wants it, wherever he wants it. 😉 Then sit back and enjoy the ride

Maybe talking about how you've enjoyed it... and coming up with some ideas or fantasies together?

With an ex we had a "first dates" type thing where we would meet and pretend we didn't know each other then go shag in the toilets or the car as if we were just randoms... a bit odd now but hot at the time.

Sexting is good too- like telling him you have no knickers on and asking him to finger you on arrival?

I often text hubby from bed if he is watching footie to say enjoy the match I'm off to sleep... naked, so please waken me up with either your fingers inside me or your cock. Gotta love a rude awakening.

Try something a bit kinky like"soapy trumpet" (but be careful with this the inside of my elbow has been a achy since we last did that!) or if you are really feeling ambitious I can recommend "chocolate fountain", just be careful you dont get a rash though. Good luck and let us know how you get on.

I'm sorry what what!?

Soapy trumpet?!?

Chocolate fountain!?!?

Explain more lol

I googled soapy trumpet..
Still not sure it would turn either of us on

Have you seriously never heard of either? perhaps by another name. Ill see if I can find an instructable link to post, probably be easier than explaining it all myself, but basically anyone can do soapy trumpet so long they have a partner and are able to hold their breath and move their left arm at the same time, and you dont need much in the way of preparation. Chocolate fountain requires one to steel oneself a bit more: you will need a high gag reflex, a microwave oven and lot (I mean LOTS) of lube.