I have always fantasised quite a lot whilst having sex as it really helps me to get in the mood. I have recently found that things that really used to turn me on just don't do it any more and in fact some of it disgusts me. In fact now I am finding it difficult to get in the mood at all. I just don't know what's going on. I am 41, periods still regular and normal so I don't think it's menopause. Nothing has changed in my life. Love DH and have no issues. How can I get back in the mood????????