How adventurous are you?

[OdinsLoveChild]

DH thinks I'm getting a bit kinky in my old age, maybe its because I have a good brood of children and I like to feel 'naughty' after behaving impeccably day in, day out for years.

We have tried all sorts, role play, toys, a few erotica parties which I'm not sure we would have tried many years ago.

Have you become more adventurous as your relationship matured or do you stick with what you like?

I wish I was more adventurous but I have so many bloody aches and pains these days! We used to be but I feel like we need to make more of an effort (mainly me)!! Our kids are older now so maybe more of an effort is needed soon!

Lots adventurous with new partner and now I'm older and hve had kids without a doubt

Yes far more adventurous. Mainly because:

I have finally realised after 12 years of being controlled and put down, that I have one life and I have every right to enjoy it

I am finally comfortable in my own skin and have a take it or leave it attitude

I have a new DP who I trust, who goes out of his way to respect me and please me in all ways

He's damn sexy, younger than me, fit and energetic and because he comes from another country with that accent it's like having a holiday romance every night 😂😂😂😳

It really turns him on to see me take control of my sex life

I work hard, in my job, in the house, as a mum and i deserve a bloody good orgasm.

I was only saying to my wife earlier that I hope we can become more adventurous in our more mature years. I'm 36 and she's 30, so maybe I'm there before her.

There has to be something in all the kink available to partake in together...

It's all a bit odd really. I genuinely believed in my 20's that I was very open minded but I must say now I'm a lot older I'm far broader minded and more willing to give most things a go.

Ineedmorelemonpledge yes you bloody do deserve amazing orgasms

What's an erotica party, OP?

Shitalopram

Im fairly new to these but an Erotica party is really a bit of a party at a large venue/hotel with fancy dress (a theme sometimes or just 'evening dress'), dinner/buffet, some entertainment (burlesque show at the last one or music). Some couples like to swap partners for a bit of fun later in the evening but if you don't want to theres no pressure to.
Its invitation only and very lively. There were a few tables set out at the last one selling toys, accessories, costumes etc too.

I get less adventurous. I pushed so many boundaries when I was younger there's nothing really that I want to try that I haven't already done.

Oh I, dunno, I had crinkle cut chips with my ham and eggs last night, if that counts....

Only if you had Salad Cream with it!

I want to be but I'm embarrassed which seems crazy being with my DH for 10 years

I have to be drunk to be more adventurous but often in the build up want to give him a BJ but always talk myself out of it!!

When the mood takes me I'm very adventurous, as is dp. I always have been when it comes to sex. Unfortunately that confidence doesn't transfer to other areas of my life

I've got much, much less adventurous as I've grown older. In my youth I did all sorts of things in all kinds of places and now I'm a very dull missionary position kind of person. I don't really like sex at all any more though so avoid it as much as I can and when we do do it I just want to get it over with as quickly as possible.

I'm not very adventurous anymore either I don't think! I did a fair few adventurous things in my youth and don't feel the urge again yet!

We only do it in the bedroom these days due to DC's going to bed later, apart from the odd daytime quickie in the kitchen. The sex is always good but we don't experiment much.

redandwhite1 I think that can be the danger in a long term relationship of many years. We invest so much and have so much to lose we become fearful of the possible rejection if we express our darker deeper thoughts with our partners.