Yes, I've name changed but I am a regular, I promise but 12 years of Mumsnet and I still don't feel able to ask this as 'me' 😳
Since having DD (2) I stopped taking the pill, it was making me fat and miserable, we now use condoms, this is working great for us and my libido has returned.
However I have an issue that I get extremely wet during intercourse and eventually no one is feeling anything. 
I have good pelvic floor muscles and can grip DH and obviously we can do other things but sometimes a quick piv session is required when the kids are asleep (it doesn't happen often!)
Advice anyone?