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How long?

25 replies

TinkerStinker · 07/02/2017 20:34

How long on average would you say sex lasts for you?
By sex I mean from however you start....kissing/foreplay/straight in (no pun intended).

I'm genuinely curious. I've been with dh for 14 years so I'm used to what we do.

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OdinsLoveChild · 07/02/2017 20:39

Depends, a quickie can be done in 5 mins or so. A standard shag about 15-20 mins. Grin

iamapixiebutnotaniceone · 07/02/2017 20:41

Anything from 5 mins to 40 mins. Usually about 15-20mins though.

IneedmoreLemonPledge · 07/02/2017 20:47

Usually in bed with foreplay from an hour upwards.

Quickies 5-15 mins.

Rumtopf · 07/02/2017 20:49

Depends on several things but can be 5 minutes for a quickie to a few hours when we have the house to ourselves and no teenager likely to come home.
Why do you ask OP?

SleepingTiger · 07/02/2017 22:10

Anything from 15 minutes on the kitchen table up to 27 years if you take into account the result of a successful fertilisation.

FlipFlopFlappy · 08/02/2017 11:47

10 min quickie
45 min normal
Roughly

wherearemymarbles · 08/02/2017 17:57

A quickie is 5 mins, normal is 10-15 and if we have the house to ourselves maybe 20.

BackToTheCaveman · 08/02/2017 19:12

From 5 minutes to 3 hours.

Crispsheets · 08/02/2017 19:14

Depends...Can be a quickie or 2-3 hours

EssentialHummus · 08/02/2017 19:17

15-20 minutes.

oleoleoleole · 08/02/2017 19:55

For us usually anywhere between 20 - 40 mins. Me 48, DH 53. Just us two at home.

redandwhite1 · 08/02/2017 20:07

We rarely do 'quickies' so usually about 40-50 mins

TheNaze73 · 08/02/2017 20:50

10 minutes to an hour

DaddyDayCare82 · 09/02/2017 07:05

We had a quickie the other day that lasted literally 5 mins. But usually we like to spend a good amount of time on 4play so anything from 30-50 mins. Both 34yrs

Seachangeshell · 09/02/2017 09:58

I'm nearly 40. It's always about 40 minutes. Quickies don't do it for me.

Seachangeshell · 09/02/2017 09:59

2-3 hours sounds good in a way, but also exhausting!

Emboo19 · 09/02/2017 11:49

10/15 minutes for a quickie, 40mins/1hr I'd say is usual from start to him finishing! Although since dd, more 20/30mins, we don't want to prolong things in case she wakes up!!
Occasionally longer, if we've been particularly foucused on foreplay.

HerOtherHalf · 09/02/2017 14:45

Do we include the pleading stage or does that come under foreplay?

DaddyDayCare82 · 09/02/2017 14:57

😂😂😂 Herotherhalf

IneedmoreLemonPledge · 09/02/2017 15:20

I think that puts you in negative time Herotherhalf

BackToTheCaveman · 09/02/2017 18:33

Seachangeshell -- 2-3 hours sounds good in a way, but also exhausting

Keeps us fit Grin

Cavewoman likes long sessions (at least 3 hours, then she goes all jelly like), I will be honest, quite often on Sunday, (which is our long session day) I will watch the second half of the football, while Cavewoman has a personal session with her toys. I join after the footy BlushFootballHmm

noego · 10/02/2017 11:37

Quickie. 5 -15 mins.
Normal. 30 - 60 mins.
Tantric. 5 hours +. Longer if you include cooking, eating, bathing etc.

Anticipation build up, erotic texts/sexts/phone calls. 1 - 2 days.
Phone sex. 20 - 45 mins.

NotTheFordType · 10/02/2017 15:16

Most of my clients are done in a half hour 😂

With my bf it's a case of "how long have we got" but never less than an hour. But we like to break things up so it lasts longer.

Opel9 · 11/02/2017 09:40

I have never managed to get my DP to do a quicky, he always turns it into something epic which isn't always what I want. So I will turn him down if there just isn't time!
If he got to choose it would be at least 2 hours full works, sometimes I am too tired for that and would be happy with 15 mins. I'm working on his quicky skills

LellyMcKelly · 14/02/2017 02:25

Anything from 15 minutes (when the kids are next door) to about an hour and a half, though he can get me off in about 5 minutes with his fingers if I need help to get to sleep 😅

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