Gushing and pelvic floor?

[GushingGirl]

Not a hairy knuckled troll. As per: Mexican house thief, Malibu and Cancel the cheque...

Recently my Partner has found a sweet spot that seems to make me 'gush'. I've done my research and am well aware a lot of people believe this to be urine. I personally don't think this is because it doesn't seem to come from there, but fine, if that's what it is, that's what it is.

I can 100% say that it certainly doesn't smell, or look like it at all. I was massively embarrassed the first time it happened and spent much time examining the 'wet stain' after.

This is after very 'vigorous' stimulation to me. Not fisting, but full on strong stimulation different to PIV or anything else.

However, since we started doing this, I've noticed my pelvic muscles seem more 'relaxed'? I've not born children, and although in my early 40's they have always been good until now.

Sometimes now when I cough too hard I wee a little.

This NEVER used to happen. Is it a cause of the stimulation or is just age? Do I just need to work on my pelvic floor more and make sure the stimulation isn't affecting this?

I'm a wee [pun] bit embarrassed about this.

Same here (although 3 dc) DP can make me 'gush' too, also like you after vigorous stimulation.
I don't believe it to be urine either, and I've inspected it more than a forensic investigator would
Keep up with your pelvic floor but interested to see if anyone else is the same!
Also could it maybe be the way he is stimulating you causing your muscles to be weaker? Did the problem start immediately after? (I don't know if that can happen!) but just trying to think of other reasons if you've never had a problem before!

Thanks for answering. Yes, only seems to have happened after we found this sweet spot.

I suppose I'll keep up the exercises, but I'm interested in why it could have happened like that. Never had an issue before!

Perhaps it's relaxed them in some way. God knows.

I'm 90% sure it is not urine. I watch a lot of CSI!

Is anyone else going to admit to doing this? Regardless of the pelvic floor issue?

For me it just when he uses his large hands very vigorously in a certain way.

Which is weird because he's well loaded. But it's something he does with his hands that his penis doesn't do.

I just have to say it's also when my DP uses his hands aswel!
I hope we aren't the only ones with this!
Although he can continue to play with that sweet spot!

Well at least there's two of us!

He can continue and I'll do more pelvic work because I'm not giving that up...

I do this to from what sounds like the same type of stimulation as you two. Definitely not wee and sometimes a very large wet patch. My pelvic floor is still the same though and pretty tight

Three!

Ok, I'll keep up the pelvic floor, because it seems like something he is doing is making a difference there.

But I still want the the orgasm he gives me when this happens. It's amazing. Off the scale amazing.

Thankfully it sounds like it's not just an age thing, and hopefully it's just that by hitting those muscles more means I need to tone them more.

No sit ups, just pelvics.

Make that four, in seemingly the same way. My pelvic floor wasn't the best before though. Must do more work on it.

Yes, I have had the gushing - but only occasionally so I've observed no adverse effect on my pelvic floor. I can see how it might affect it though. For me, it's really firm strokes on the anterior that makes me gush. It seems a penis just can't get the right angle/pressure.

BTW, I have found running, weights, general core work, etc effective for toning up the pelvic floor.

Another gusher here but only when I am on top! Interestingly only started with my current gorgeous well endowed DP.

Me too. Only ever happened with one partner - my best male friend (we are both single and have sex with each other)

He says he's quite proud of the huge wet patch I leave in his bed - I feel embarrassed