Years ago when I was single I had a trusty vibe - I used it regularly for several years with much pleasure. 20 years on and finding it harder to climax with DH, I took the move to introduce a battery helper to our bed - good results. The only problem is that it makes me sore even after gentle use on my outer parts and shallow dips inside. It is made from medical silicone (the Swoon one from Boots) - even when used with water based lube (KY Jelly), the silicone although soft seems to drag on my delicate bits. Does anyone else have silicone intimate problems? - I'd like to try a hard plastic one like I had 20 years ago but I can't identify a decent one (I want a proper sized one not a bullet). Has anyone else solved the soreness by changing to plastic or should I just give up and go back to manual? Advice please...