Just for context, I'm 27 and have a 3yo ds, and a DP who I love very much. This is causing a bit of a problem between us both and I need to sort it out.
I was taking the pill for a good few years before I had DS and didn't realise at the time how messed up the hormones were making me. I've now ditched them and I'm no longer a depressed and anxious mess. The only problem is my sex drive hasn't come back at all, and we are talking 3 years after I've stopped taking the pill. I've looked in to the science behind it and it all makes sense, but all the information I can find points to it returning naturally after a few months.
We have tried more intimacy, 'spicing' things up a bit etc but it doesn't work. Before I started on the pill, we had sex near enough every day. Now it's about once a month 
Does anyone have any advice on what I can do about this? We can't live like this forever and we both desperately want to regain this side of our relationship. Are there any supplements I can try or anything? I can't find much useful info online.