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Eyes open or closed?

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WindInThePussyWillows · 27/08/2016 23:16

Just that really. After 9 long months of twin pregnancy and a whole lot of hands and knees I'd almost forgotten about the whole eyes open or closed thing.
Now we can resume normal activity I noticed my DP eyes wide open kind of starring at me.
I think mine are normally closed.

What's your preference? Grin

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HonkHonkNose · 27/08/2016 23:23

Mine closed. It would freak me out if dp was humping away staring at me!

ZippyNeedsFeeding · 27/08/2016 23:25

With the current MrZ, eyes closed. However, I have read a book over the shoulder of a previous partner. He didn't notice, not even when I moved his head so I could turn the page.

Eatthecake · 27/08/2016 23:25

I open my eyes for some of it but mainly closed

It's like kissing with your eyes open, just plain weird! I had a hook up before I met DH that kept his eyes opening when kissing freaked me out

gamerchick · 27/08/2016 23:25

A bit of both, tell him to stobbit.

Eatthecake · 27/08/2016 23:26

Blimey Zippy he must of been one boring shag Shock

AtSea1979 · 27/08/2016 23:27

Open, those who like it closed I don't get it, I like DP to be in the room with me not eyes closed dreaming of another!

Pinkheart5915 · 27/08/2016 23:28

My eyes are open for some of it as DH has a really great body and I like to admire, mainly closed though.

When my eyes are open DH are normally closed so it's not like we are staring at each other

gamerchick · 27/08/2016 23:28

Yeah closed unless you have issues Wink

JigglypuffsCaptor · 27/08/2016 23:29

I think I swap between eyes open and eyes closed Confused I do love seeing DP's body though, I'm borderline pervy when he undresses Blush

He's away at the moment, I need to stop talking about him naked before I make myself all bothered under the collar hahaha 😂

Pinkheart5915 · 27/08/2016 23:29

I'm not dreaming of another when my eyes are closed Confused

Sparklesilverglitter · 27/08/2016 23:31

If I'm on top my eyes are open as I'm admiring DH nice body but DH eyes will be closed and if DH on top my eyes tend to close.

I don't dream of another when my eyes are closed Confused

ZippyNeedsFeeding · 27/08/2016 23:33

Blimey Zippy he must of been one boring shag
Not usually, but he did tend to think that if he was having a great time then i must be too. Just one of the reasons for him being an ex!

GoldenWorld · 27/08/2016 23:34

Eyes open. My and ex and I used to shag doing a lot of eye contact, in fact that was one of my favourite parts. We had a very intense relationship though. He even orgasmed looking into my eyes once which was extremely intimate. I wouldn't like it if a partner had their eyes closed all the time.

ProfessorPickles · 27/08/2016 23:37

A bit of both I'd say. When kissing eyes closed then open inbetween kisses then closed again, IYSWIM?

Then during sex half and half again. I'm not entirely comfortable being looked at even with my clothes on Grin so to have someone look at me constantly would put me on edge I think!

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WindInThePussyWillows · 27/08/2016 23:47

An interesting mix then! I hadn't really thought about it before but it had been such a while since I could lay on my back or get on top that when it happened tonight I was very conscious of it.

I think I'm with the pp who said a bit of eye contact every now and then - it's intimate but definitely closed whilst passionately kissing..

Thanks for sharing Grin

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BonneMaman77 · 28/08/2016 11:57

Wide open staring into his when making love. We both like it that way, blinking is allowed by mutual agreement.

Shut while kissing tho.

BonneMaman77 · 28/08/2016 11:58

Ps we talk and make jokes and laugh about a variety of things...during sex. Is that weird?

AkimboLimbo · 28/08/2016 17:03

Mostly open but closed for particularly intense moments.
I do like to watch!

McBassyPants · 29/08/2016 08:37

I read somewhere that moat women are eyes closed and men eyes open to do with the stimulation. Men generally need physical/visual stimulation whereas for women it's more about emotional/imaginative(for want of a better word) stimulation

TheNaze73 · 30/08/2016 08:27

A bit of both, eye contact at critical moments, can be very lush

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WindInThePussyWillows · 30/08/2016 09:56

McBassy that makes a lot of sense actually!

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UmbongoUnchained · 30/08/2016 10:00

I've never really been able to look my husband directly in the eyes Grin
So eyes closed most of the time but sometimes open to have a good perv.

PopFizz · 30/08/2016 10:03

Both. Sometimes I rather like watching, especially as he goes in and out. But other times I like my eyes closed, especially when he's focused on me.

0phelia · 02/09/2016 17:27

Foreplay, eyes open.
I love to gaze into DP's eyes because they change colour.

While making love eyes are mostly closed, but sometimes open for a bit iykwim.

It's difficult to maintain eye contact with someone who is nuzzling your neck anyway. Especially difficult whilst they are doing you from behind too!

BG2015 · 05/10/2016 18:34

Previous partners it's always been eyes closed but with my current partner it's definitely eyes open. It's actually very sexy !

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