What do you class as 'passionate sex'

[feetonthedashboard]

My friend thinks it's something only people in relationships have. Borne of knowing each other and what they like in bed etc

I think you can have passionate sex with anyone if you gel enough with them.

Is it slow romantic loving sex? Or throwing each other around, biting and scratching sex?

[TheyOnceSaid]

passmethewineplease Yes they recieve them by men, and the last bit is just my opinion, gay males associate with bums.

[areyoubeingserviced]

It's ridiculous to say that men who like their bum being played with are gay
A man"s g spot is situated in his bum

[feetonthedashboard]

Well this escalated quickly

Loads of men like anal play, they aren't all in the closet!

[ThoraGruntwhistle]

What defines any sexual activity as 'gay' is the sex of the person you're doing it with, not the activity itself. I'm surprised that you'd think a woman doing something with a male heterosexual partner could be called gay because clearly it isn't.

[Beautifulstorm]

Passionate is any sex your really into! In a new relationship it's wanting to basically devour the person to the point of feeling like you might explode from excitement.

In a comfortable long term relationship it has elements of lust, but the passion is born from love. Although sometimes DH and I have the odd moment where we are like new lovers!

[BabooshkaKate]

Passionate sex is a feeling; being really into it. Both partners can't get enough of each other.

Gay sex is sexual activity between people who are attracted to the same sex as themselves. Will you be claiming that lesbians who use dildos and strap ons are secretly straight, next?

[TheyOnceSaid]

kormachameleon

I'm 27, what I have said is just my opinion, I had no intension to offend anyone, accept my opinion, there's no need for you to call me ridiculous

[OutToGetYou]

It's not an "opinion", it's plain wrong.
Men here who are not gay and like bottom play during sex have told you so. Women with husbands who also like it have told you. So, no, we don't need to accept your opinion when it's not an opinion, it's actually an offensive incorrect narrow minded statement.

[travellinglighter]

To be fair, settling down to watch tv together and suddenly finding you’re self ripping each others clothes off is passionate sex. Do love a bit of bite scratchy hair pulling though.

[Savagebeauty]

Don't be so fucking stupid they once said
What a ridiculous statement

[AliceThrewTheFookingGlass]

I suggest you look up the definition of gay. Hint: a sexual act carried out between a man and a woman isn't it.

[MariposaUno]

I think it's when you are really into each other and it just feels right.

Doesn't have to be kink.
6 months in and the passion and connection is still strong if not stronger than the beginning as we got to know each other.

[Surferjet]

It's possible to be gay & have straight sex surely? How many people 'come out' as gay after years of marriage?

[AliceThrewTheFookingGlass]

Well to be fair TheyOnceSaid

God no, any male that agrees to let a strap on be used on him, is definitely not straight! is not an opinion. It is a statement and a pretty bold and incorrect one at that.

[SaggyNaggy]

theyoncesaid
I feel sorry for your children

Ive reported your last post for this Ots frankly disgusting to say that to anyone in a parenting website. I could easily say exactly the same about you.

Id feel sorry for any children of a parent so evidently clueless about anything beyond their limited ken.

[AliceThrewTheFookingGlass]

I also think that saying 'I feel sorry for your children' is a lot worse than saying 'don't be so fucking stupid' she's implying that you're being stupid (not that you are stupid) whereas you are implying she's such a bad parent that her children deserve pity from randoms on the Internet.

[MyBreadIsEggy]

Lumpy it doesn't sound braggy....
It just sounds like you still fancy the pants off of your partner after 10 years It's only been 5 years ( a busy 5 years mind! 4 tours of Afghanistan between us, one wedding, one baby, and midway through another pregnancy now) for us and I still fancy him as much as I did when I met him

[YvaineStormhold]

I think theyoncesaid is taking the piss.

fuckinghopesoanywayjesus

[TiggyOBE]

passionate sex means not folding up your clothes first, not looking at your watch, not talking about anything but the sex you're attempting, and not taking a break for bargain hunt.

[Savagebeauty]

Oh fuck off they once said you narrow-minded troll.
Why post on a sex topic?