What do you class as 'passionate sex'

[feetonthedashboard]

My friend thinks it's something only people in relationships have. Borne of knowing each other and what they like in bed etc

I think you can have passionate sex with anyone if you gel enough with them.

Is it slow romantic loving sex? Or throwing each other around, biting and scratching sex?

[DameDiazepamTheDramaQueen]

Do people still feel that 10 years down the line?

Yep,27 years here.

[AnecdotalEvidence]

For me passion is when all inhibitions go out of the window and all that matters is the sex.

[bridgetoc]

Sex with my DH is not passionate sex. It's loving, but can also be very kinky, but I would not describe it as passionate. Mainly it's all about the love we share for each other. He is handsome; gentle, loving, considerate and affectionate. He is not what you would call the stud, mans man type. He cannot make me orgasm through penetrative sex. He is also very submissive, for example he loves being pegged, he likes being teased, he is turned on by me having a BF. He likes to be controlled. He will do everything I tell him to do because I am the sexually dominant one in our relationship. I love the sex we have, but I would not describe it as passionate.

What I have with my BF I would describe as very passionate. In bed he makes me feel things nobody ever has. He is the opposite to my DH. He is dominant, well endowed, with amazing stamina. He has a magic electric touch, and he makes me lose control of myself in a way my DH could never do. I do not love him, but what we have is 100% pure sexual passion.

[passmethewineplease]

Ineed

Won't be back on this thread due to the language? It's a sex thread it was hardly going to stay clean.

I just don't see how you make your connections oncesaid

[Ineedmorelemonpledge]

So is a woman who enjoys anal play really a gay man then?

[ThoraGruntwhistle]

I don't think anyone is saying that a heterosexual man would happily receive a blowjob from another man without a second thought. But receiving one from a woman is not gay.

So if you are still reading this foul mouthed thread hopefully you've now taken on board that heterosexual couples can do activities that homosexual couples might also do, without it being 'gay'. Because they aren't doing them with someone who is the same sex as them.

HTH.

[WontLetThoseRobotsDefeatMe]

New, old, vanilla, kinky, whatever - to me, it's sex where you both just lose yourself in the moment. Not pre meditated planning. Bloody marvellous!!

[Savagebeauty]

wash mouth out with soap
Do you belong to a 19th century religious cult?

[SaggyNaggy]

Anyway I won't post back on this thread because ive made myself look stupid

Ftfy hth

[TheyOnceSaid]

One thing I'm not is a troll since when was having an opinion classed as trolling check my posting history you won't see any history of me trolling

You are still swearing which is making you look even worst, you need to wash your mouth out with soap.

Blowjobs are blowjobs, doesn't matter who's the giver!

So if a male recieves one from another male it doesn't make him gay/bisexual.. Umm ok then I don't know any straight males that would happily accept one of a male and feel no way about it.

Anyway I won't post back on this thread, language is appalling.

[passmethewineplease]

But what you say makes no sense once

Blowjobs are blowjobs, doesn't matter who's the giver!

So if a male enjoys a bit of bum fun what then makes you think they'd like to settle down with a man in a long term relationship?

[ijustwannadance]

It's when you find someone and the attraction is very mutual and spontaneous.

[Savagebeauty]

And now I'm off to peg my very hetero partner.

[Savagebeauty]

Oh fuck off they once said you narrow-minded troll.
Why post on a sex topic?

[TiggyOBE]

passionate sex means not folding up your clothes first, not looking at your watch, not talking about anything but the sex you're attempting, and not taking a break for bargain hunt.

[YvaineStormhold]

I think theyoncesaid is taking the piss.

fuckinghopesoanywayjesus

[MyBreadIsEggy]

Lumpy it doesn't sound braggy....
It just sounds like you still fancy the pants off of your partner after 10 years It's only been 5 years ( a busy 5 years mind! 4 tours of Afghanistan between us, one wedding, one baby, and midway through another pregnancy now) for us and I still fancy him as much as I did when I met him

[AliceThrewTheFookingGlass]

I also think that saying 'I feel sorry for your children' is a lot worse than saying 'don't be so fucking stupid' she's implying that you're being stupid (not that you are stupid) whereas you are implying she's such a bad parent that her children deserve pity from randoms on the Internet.

[SaggyNaggy]

theyoncesaid
I feel sorry for your children

Ive reported your last post for this Ots frankly disgusting to say that to anyone in a parenting website. I could easily say exactly the same about you.

Id feel sorry for any children of a parent so evidently clueless about anything beyond their limited ken.

[AliceThrewTheFookingGlass]

Well to be fair TheyOnceSaid

God no, any male that agrees to let a strap on be used on him, is definitely not straight! is not an opinion. It is a statement and a pretty bold and incorrect one at that.

[Surferjet]

It's possible to be gay & have straight sex surely? How many people 'come out' as gay after years of marriage?

[MariposaUno]

I think it's when you are really into each other and it just feels right.

Doesn't have to be kink.
6 months in and the passion and connection is still strong if not stronger than the beginning as we got to know each other.

[AliceThrewTheFookingGlass]

I suggest you look up the definition of gay. Hint: a sexual act carried out between a man and a woman isn't it.

[Savagebeauty]

Don't be so fucking stupid they once said
What a ridiculous statement