Dirty weekend tips?

[BlackBetty67]

Name changed lest I out myself. DH has surprised me with a night away next month. Excited for DC free time. No idea where we are going cos he is being secretive. Naturally want to have lots of sex whilst we have 24hours to ourselves. Going to look on lovehoney tonight to see what I could buy to really thank him but any suggestions? Have been tempted by the couples games on there like Monogamy. Anyone used these? We are relatively adventurous and often use toys but want to change things up a bit. That said, I am heavier than before DC and am not confident naked at a size 18 (worried how my body looks and moves) and DH needs direction (definitely not dom!) But is always eager
Think we just need a change up. Any suggestions?

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New sexy underwear maybe? Perhaps something like a baby doll if you are a bit body conscious. I also have a patterned fishnet body stocking which is surprisingly flattering for the curvier lady..

Maybe try edging as a way to get into S&M?

Or buy a toy you can take out, eg remote controlled vibrator or a cock cage?

Sounds fun! I am jealous!

Instead of guessing what he might like, or even asking the mighty MN for suggestions, why not try to find out yourself?

You could ask him, or you could try www.mojoupgrade.com it's a series of questions about sexual likes and dislikes. You both answer them independently and are sent the results of things you've BOTH agreed upon. So one might never need worry about your partner finding out about your midget / clown / vampire / freshly mown grass fetish unless he ticked that box too. It's very good.

One weekend away we wrote down a few suggestions each on pieces of paper, folded them up and put in a bowl, then every now and again took one out. Like a simpler version of the mojoupgrade site. Worked very well!

I have Monogamy and think it's a great game but be aware that for some of the cards you should have props like lube, something you can use as a blindfold, edible stuff like honey or chocolate spread or something, and probably other stuff I've forgotten. It's good in that it gets you both talking about things which may have never occurred to you to bring up. I see reviews of another game, Nookii, which say that it doesn't need any extras like Monogamy does but I can't really comment since I've only tried Monogamy.