Fisting

[VenusInFauxFurs]

I was very consensually, enthusiastically fisted for the first time the other evening. It was very pleasant, quite possibly the best orgasm I've ever had.

But, there was a lot of bleeding. I only realised afterwards quite how much blood there was. He was wearing a latex glove so I think the bleeding came from stretching rather than scratching.

Has anyone else had experience of bleeding after fisting? I didn't experience any pain at the time or afterwards. I am going to the GUM clinic tomorrow and will ask them about it.

"BOOM! fist up the food"

< clench >

Thank you, Auto-Correct. "Food" is better in that sentence. Anything is better at the end of a sentence that begins with "Fist up the..."

Why don't you lot leave AF alone ok!!? Out of everyone on Mumsnet she defends women to the absolute fucking HILT! So anytime i send people have a go at her I just think you are hateful! So fuck off!

As much as I think AF is great, she is human and can be disagreed with. I know she would agree that she isn't exempt from being disagreed with simple because she defends women (like many other MNers do when it is needed)

AF posts are a bit patronising. I don't want to be fisted, I don't understand it, but I assume women are capable of deciding what they like for themselves and that they can worry about their own bodies.

Imperial's post is just plain insulting. It is insulting to label women who enjoy fisting as lacking in self respect.

"Its a gradual process as more fingers are being employed and depths are being deepened"

It sounds like birth in reverse.

I really didn't enjoy it the other way around.

Aside from the naughty factor, WHY do you want to stretch your fanjo?

Auto correct has a lot to answer for on this thread

It's like even Auto-Correct can't believe the act people are describing

Because Cote it feels utterly amazing. And I trust the man I'm doing it with.

That's why.

LastGirl, AnyFucker has given brilliant advice and support on numerous Relationships threads. I told her I liked her on the first page of this thread.

But she is, to be fair, fairly dogmatic in her opinions. It's partly her posting style, she never says "in my opinion..." It's always "This is how it is. FACT."

AF has consistently been disapproving of any kind of 'alternative' sexual lifestyle. Any thread which involves polyamorous relationships or anal sex or BDSM or swinging, she'll pop up and let everyone know that it's wrong and fucked up and people ought to be ashamed of themselves.

I get the impression that if AF and Mr AF don't get up to it in the bedroom, then she doesn't have any truck with it.

Which is fair enough. Everyone is entitled to their own views. I wonder why she bothers to post on certain threads though. My initial post was one where I'd experienced bleeding during sex. Her immediate reply "That's nice, dear" was neither kind nor helpful.

Am I the only one wondering what happens if a fire starts (in the house!)

Well, that would hasten the removal process, I assume, Expellibramus. It possibly should have been discussed beforehand, tbh. I enjoy a bit of bondage. "What if the house suddenly goes on fire?" is always a consideration in those scenarios.

Predetermined 'evacuation plan'

Where have I said people should be ashamed of themselves ?

I just typed fisting and it auto corrected to fistula

Which could be quite apt.

I once googled First Direct and Fist Direct came up.
In video.

last girl that's very sycophantic.
I agree that AF gives good advice on Relationships but that doesn't mean she should be on a pedestal.

I knew a fella that was into fisting. He doesn't do it so much these days but he likes to keep his hand in.

Coat.

MN, has developed this weird "pop culture" like status for certain "Uber Posters". These "Ubers", seem to have 24/7 free time, plus constant access to MN. Other posters reference them and wait eagerly for their pearls of wisdom, like little girls wait for the latest One Direction "selfie". Should any "regular" poster have the audacity to criticise or question one of the "Ubers" then heaven help them.

This thread is a classic case in point. The Op asks for advice on a certain specific issue (blood loss), which happened to occur during an activity she freely engaged in. Queue the hand wringing, pearl clutching, psychiatric evaluation and character assignation, by a bunch of "randoms" who seem to have advice on every subject from fisting, to footballers wives. Plus 24 hours a day free time to dispense these nuggets.

Here is some advice for the "keyboard warriors" sat at home (all alone). If sexual liberation and the freedom of choice offends you. Then next time you see a thread on a SEX discussion board, entitled "Fisting", you may want to take yourself off back to your comfort zone. In other words FRO.

I thought this board was set up so posters could discuss their sex lives without criticism ( you'd expect negative replies if this was posted in Aibu/chat/ or even relationships - but this is the sex board where people talk about all aspects of their sex lives, if you're not into various forms of sexual practice why are you viewing this board?
It would be like hating cats but lurking on the litter tray ( & occasionally posting to voice your disgust at cat owners )
I just don't understand?
Fisting is not my thing, but if the op enjoys it then good for her.
The pearl clutchers are ruining this board, & that's such a shame.

"Why don't you lot leave AF alone ok!!? Out of everyone on Mumsnet she defends women to the absolute fucking HILT! "

Well, she's not defending the OP's choices, is she?

I hope nobody thought I was pearl-clutching. I am genuinely curious about this practice and wanted to understand what is so great about it - expressed surprise and bewilderment perhaps but no judgement.

I believe in everyone's right to do whatever they like with their bodies - not just re sex but also extreme sports, drugs, etc.

My neighbours just bought a new Fiat

I think it's a sign....

CoteDAzur - I hope nobody thought I was pearl-clutching. I am genuinely curious about this practice and wanted to understand what is so great about it - expressed surprise and bewilderment perhaps but no judgement

Really??? then can you explain your statement It sounds about as enjoyable as a smear test tbh. Worse, actually. At least the doctor doesn't put his entire hand in my fanjo while doing the smear test and it doesn't take 20 minutes to do it

There's some right nasty arseholes on mumsnet sometimes.

Yes, it sounds about as enjoyable as a smear test to me. And the whole thing reminded me of DD's birth which truly wasn't fun.

Also the 20-min wait for the whole hand to be gradually inserted into the fanjo feels like it would be a boring pause in sex, but OP said there is quite a bit of clit-massaging going on in the meanwhile, which is fair enough (although I might reach for my Kindle at that point to pass the time instead )

I didn't say and certainly didn't mean that nobody else should do it or enjoy it.

It is surprising that people want their vaginas stretched that much, so I asked why they would want to do it. Opies "Because it feels utterly amazing" and that was that.

Anyway, if I want to hear your opinions on what I should ask & say on this topic, I know where to find you. Until then...

Excellent... when cornered come out fighting.

So when you posted bewilderment perhaps but no judgement and then you are reminded of your clearly judgemental post. Your reaction is get all defensive and narky if I want to hear your opinions on what I should ask & say on this topic, I know where to find you.

Don't dish it, if you can't take it. I am not even sure if you can see the paradox in your last statement.

"Cornered"? Not really. I have no trouble with telling people they are wrong to do something, but it wasn't the case here. If it were, I would not deny it.

You'll have more luck sticking your pitchfork into those who said "Find someone who respects you" etc. All I did was express surprise and disbelief that it would be enjoyable. Frankly I don't care how people get their kicks.

Now if that's understood, the thread can get over this derail and go back to the apparently delightful practice of making a fist with one's hand inside someone's fanjo.