Been asked what my turn ons are, my mind has gone blank...

[backonthebikeagain]

Background info, I have been single for a long time. Very anti men, happy on my own etc. Have met a lovely man who I am actually dating! He has asked what my weaknesses are. I have no bloody idea!! What is wrong with me!!

I dont think anything too much would be a good idea. I honestly dont know what to say. Help!!!

Not sure what the question is: what your weaknesses are - in what respect?

My turn ons are my weaknesses.

Sounds like you don't have any weaknesses.

Go you!!

Cake? Both a turn on and a weakness

By weaknesses you mean what makes you go "weak at the knees" ??

Turn ons are weaknesses?

According to Jilly Cooper etc...

Are you at an interview?

Sorry, I think I confused myself with this as well!!

I think what I mean is that I don't need anything extra to be turned on. I like him just the way he is. Do you know what I mean?! For some blokes it's heels or outfits isn't it, I don't need stuff like that!!

If heels and outfits don't do it for you then tell him what does.

If you like what he does, tell him, but make sure you are specific because it will boost his confidence and he will find it a turn on.

You might also like to ask him what turns him on. If he's into outfits and high heels you might want to consider if you would wear them for him.

He's trying to please you sexually - that is good.
I don't know that anyone else can help you because you know better than us what turns you on.
Do you like to be teased, sexy texts or photos, to shower together, be blindfolded, role play, go out with no knickers on, use toys, watch each other masturbate, talk dirty, favourite position or place.....etc

Even a non-risque reply to this would be good for the both of you like,
I like it when you kiss my neck, or when you stroke my thigh or I like my feet stroked or whatever totally normal turn-ons people have.
Don't panic! It's a good opportunity for you to express what you like.

Have you slept with him yet?

I find this modern dangled way of listing what works before the act most odd. It might not work with that person!