Got my hands on my first vibrator and I have some questions !

[Italianmoma1983]

I never had a sex toy before and I regret the lost time 😁! I love it and I climax after 2 minutes...is it something I could get addicted to ? I'm happily married and we do it on average once a week and I don't come all the time. Please tell me it is normal to seek sexual pleasure elsewhere than during couple time ? I'm all new at this !

It's normal and it's fine. Enjoy.

Why not use it together?

So long as you're not prioritising it over sex with DH, you're grand. Crack on

We used it once together and it was nice !

Very normal - have fun!

Very normal. I didn't have my first until about 5 years ago. I was on it three times a day when it first arrived! I've calmed down a bit now though

Agree, together is good. Alone, if you really are alone. All good.

Use it together or alone, and enjoy!!

Yes, it is possible to get addicted. If you get to the stage of

• Turning down sex because you'd rather have a wank
• Pulling a sickie at work to stay home and wank
• Spending family money that can't be afforded on sex toys then you know you've got a problem.

otherwise, crack on

I only discovered rabbits about 5 years ago. We use it together as a couple and I use it alone too sometimes, if I just "fancy an orgasm". Best thing ever invented