Ok, so I'm in a same sex relationship, in case any of you are wondering whether I'm a guy. That's cleared that up.
My gf and I have been together for a few years now and we've always had a really good sex life. Since we've both started new and more demanding jobs, it's less often, but when we do have sex, it's still very satisfying.
However, my gf has recently developed a 'problem' with getting wet, or at least having a very delayed reaction iygwim.
Now she swears that it's not me, it's her, but it's really hard to believe sometimes. When we talk about it afterwards, I can understand where she's coming from and it makes sense. The stress, the tiredness etc, but during, it's hard to remember that tbh and sometimes I do take it personally and get a bit upset. She tells me to carry on and says she feels really turned on, but after a while it's like, surely this is hurting 
and it doesn't feel right to carry on. I have stopped a few times and she gets understandably frustrated with me and I feel bad, but it's hard. Maybe it's because I'm the complete opposite and I get really wet, really quickly and tbf, so did she.
I just wanted to see if any of you ladies have this problem and is it really nothing to do with your partner?? Is there anything we can do? The problem is, now we're getting into a bit of a cycle, because I think she's worrying it will happen, so it does happen because she's worrying about it happening 
Advice would be well received.
Ta ladies.
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