Hi ladies need your advice been with my DP since I was 16 he was 18 we have two dcs ds 6 and dd 11 mos. Currently bf dd and am on cerazette. My sex drive has only decreased slighty but its not from cerazette or breastfeeding or lack of sleep from young children housework ect....this brings me on to my issue im bored to thr back teeth of our sex life.... I do everything to please him stockings sexy undies sensual massage strip tease dancing ect everything he likes I do plus more and he is v.v satisfied and wants sex all the time my issue is im not satisfied to say the least he doesnt do oral sex never in alll these years I cant fill a hand with the occasions I have had it as much as I respect that someone doesnt want to perform a sexual act and you cant force them and I have adjusted to this im still somewhat resentful as I wouldnt mind if his usual didnt consist of pants knickes off no kissing no manual stimulation no breast touching licking even before breastfeeding bit of missionary then doggy till he cums im left looking at the fucking headboard board out of my skull sex is only good when I take charge which frankly im fed up of doing I dont even get seconds the same night even if I initate sex the same night he will say his dick is too tired and hes quite small not that I use to mind but now im just wishing he would put it to better use oh and he cums soooo quick sometimes im not even wet yet tmi....I dont reinforce his shit sex with faking so it seems he just cares about his cum nothing else it makes me think its me like he cant be asked witg me and im like a wank just a means to an end. Ive tried talking ive tried a proactive approach shoving his head down there jus for him to pop up like a jack in the box and I suggested a bit of a clit rub that lasted a second sometimes he will fall asleep and I play with myself to get off. I dont own any toys might get one. He has never asked for toys or anal he dont like me anywhere near his bum or under balls quite conservative like that havent tried watching porn together might give him some ideas I watch porn more than him honesty he doesnt bother i snoop so i know as i have to delete my gay porn men on men and he doesnt have a phone he seems wholly content im not sorry for tmi