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Is this possible or just dreamt?

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SoWhoKnew · 29/06/2015 18:40

I am am a long time regular who divulges far too much identifying info under my usual name so ive changed for this.

Last night i had a dream that turned into two women making out leading up to sex, the part im asking about is that i think i almost (or even did) orgasmed in my sleep. I have never orgasmed before, ive been close many times but never being able to see it through, however last night it felt like i was getting there and then a slow pulsing sensation in my vagina, to the point where it woke me. Ive never felt that before, However im not sure if i dreamt the sensation or if it was real.

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scribblegirl · 29/06/2015 20:20

Sorry OP, I just re read the post and you're not asking for anything like the advice I gave. Sorry Blush

TRexingInAsda · 29/06/2015 20:29

Definitely possible, I've had that a few times. Congratulations, I wish you many more - hopefully when you're awake now as well!

SoWhoKnew · 29/06/2015 20:37

Are you concerned by the 'two girls' thing?

No not really, im straight in that ive only had relationships with men but i do find women attractive/ have women crushes etc. so the dream wasnt a surprise. I just dont talk about it to anyone as im not really interested in relationships with women.

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SoWhoKnew · 29/06/2015 20:39

Congratulations, I wish you many more - hopefully when you're awake now as well!

Thank you! Yes i hope so too.

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gaggiagirl · 29/06/2015 20:42

I really hope you can achieve an awake one. Now you have that dream in your head can you 'work' with it tonight perhaps?

Earthbound · 29/06/2015 20:44

Happens to me all the time! Never mentioned it to anyone so assumed until I read this thread that it was a 'thing' everyone experienced. Every day is a school day on MN.

Congrats OP. Sweet dreams! Wink

sherbetpips · 29/06/2015 20:44

Happens to me once or twice a month but if I am honest it is quite un-satisfying as it wakes me up and doesn't quite finish if that makes sense, it's difficult to get back to sleep with your heart racing and down there pulsing!

Destinysdaughter · 29/06/2015 20:47

This is a video of an 'energy orgasm' , it may look weird but I've done a workshop with this guy and it was amazing!

m.youtube.com/watch?itct=CDYQpDAYACITCOeFgpHVtcYCFZYeHAodnHcAdFINYW5kcmV3IGJhcm5lcw%3D%3D&sts=16609&utcoffset=60&v=Qaf0J9QsRT8&oref=https%3A%2F%2Fm.youtube.com%2F%3Fgl%3DGB%26hl%3Den-GB&has_verified=1&layout=tablet&client=mv-google

SoWhoKnew · 29/06/2015 20:47

Yes sherbet! I didnt get the sense that it was completed iyswim. It was the pulsing that confused me and made me think it must have as i have never had that before.

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PotteringAlong · 29/06/2015 20:49

I really want to watch that video but I'm not going into the explanations with DH so I'm going to wait until later!

Fugghetaboutit · 29/06/2015 20:50

Yes I get them when I haven't had sex in a while.

Especially when dreaming of Idris..mmmm Blush

SoWhoKnew · 29/06/2015 20:55

Especially when dreaming of Idris..mmmm

that is very understandable Grin

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WhyIRayLiotta · 29/06/2015 21:04

I get them too! Especially if I've woken up then gone back to sleep. So if DP gets up and I awake but go back to sleep.

I have a vivid dream - nothing romantic or sexual - then somehow sex comes into it. I definitely don't physically touch myself so it's completely mental.

I can also should've name changed direct it as such some times... So when I start to get the feeling - I can control where the dream goes so that I can finish IYCWIM.

I genuinely have considered putting myself forward for a sleep study to see what the hell is going on!

scribblegirl · 29/06/2015 21:22

Liotta - look up 'lucid dreams' Smile - I'm jealous!

Raxacoricofallapatorius · 29/06/2015 21:31

I didn't have an orgasm until I was 34 (and yes I started a ruddy thread Grin).

I bought a rabbit and I also let go of some emotional baggage. Are you single?

I was very surprised by what an orgasm feels like. It's like pulsing/shivering with odd aftershocks and a funny pooling of warmth which spreads and tingles. I remember my toes feeling really fecking odd afterwards too.

SoWhoKnew · 29/06/2015 21:35

Yes im single. I do have a bullet and another toy thing that i didnt really get on with. Quite honestly i just never think to use them. I dont masturbate either. Never really got into a habit of it. Blush

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gaggiagirl · 29/06/2015 21:36

Other people and vibrators have always provided me with orgasms but its only very recently that I have been able to touch myself to orgasm. I'm really proud of myself I feel like I've really had a break through. I think this is your break through op.

Jaguarana · 29/06/2015 21:42

I get them occasionally too, and the dreams that lead to it are very vivid.

ninjasuperted · 29/06/2015 23:37

Men get them too, but there is always evidence to show its happened,Grin

SoWhoKnew · 30/06/2015 00:35

Of course! That hadnt even occurred to me Grin

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GinBunny · 30/06/2015 00:41

Who knows how dreams work? Mine are certainly random to say the least!
But I have experienced "sleep orgasms" too, usually when I have woken up and dozed back off again so not in deep sleep.
I'm taking ADs at the moment so experience sleepy ones more than real ones atm Sad

Bluepetal1 · 30/06/2015 05:15

Sowhoknew I strongly recommend you use your bullet and your toy. Get into bed and undress . Lie back and spread your legs. It can take some time so relax and enjoy. It is my new favourite pastime when I have some time free especially in the afternoon. I tell you that you will know about it.

SpeccyBat · 30/06/2015 05:26

I'm rather jealous Grin

Canyouforgiveher · 30/06/2015 05:31

I have had orgasms in my sleep a few times. I have found they are very intensely pleasurable - way more so than orgasms with a partner or through masturbation.

best one I ever had was 3 weeks after a completely traumatic birth - 4th degree tear/pph/blood transfusion/retained products. Feeding a baby while feeling like a train wreck and that I would never have sex again. and then one night had an amazing orgasm in my sleep. I think to this day it was my body's way of telling me to chill, it would all work out sexually (and it did). It cheered me right up.

CycleChic · 30/06/2015 06:15

by vagina, do you mean your actual vag, or your foof? If it's the latter, I get this after a particularly good orgasm. :)
As for how to repeat it: think about your dream, and let your hands /toys do what they will; )

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