DD has (just) been offered a place at Kingsdale with a music scholarship - it was our first choice so it ought to be a no-brainer. She knows a couple of older girls there & was desperate to get her place.
It's just that having now spent the last month thinking she'd be going to EGA, where most of her friends from Primary are going, she thinks she wants to go there instead now!
My logical brain says she should take the Kingsdale place since it was harder to get, then if it doesn't work out, maybe there is a chance she could transfer to EGA or somewhere else. Although I haven't actually heard of anyone who has transferred to EGA during the year or at the beginning of Y8, so I don't know how easy that would be.
And I know its not logical to think that the place that was harder to get must be 'better' but it is harder to give it up if that makes sense!
I can't believe that having wished for years that there was a great 2ndary school in walking distance, now there really is one I'm thinking of sending dd down the road on a bus .
From what I've heard, EGA has the full spectrum of kids from those who struggled at Primary for whatever reason, to those who were already high achievers, so I'm not worried on that score. A lot of the teaching seems innovative & I think it has the potential to rival the best schools around here. I was really impressed with their music department, & most of the other subject areas - art was the only one which didn't make much of an impression, though of course that could change.
Is it evil of me to want dd to have a bus-ride in the morning so she has to leave a bit earlier ? That would make my mornings so much easier... I might even get into work on time one day.
Pimlico was on our list but further down because of the journey time. But I am trying to get my head around how many kids shuffle around in Y7 before everything settles - does it really happen a lot?
I let Primary School slip by without a care, & everything turned out fine in the end, so I'm not sure why I've turned so super-anxious 'must get it right' this time round.
I do know people who switched their dc's from Primary to Primary until they got the 'right' one, and the instability that left in its wake did leave me a bit resentful, so I don't really want to be doing that at 2ndary level.