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Help - between us we are messing up DD's education

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castille · 02/03/2010 21:33

DD is 12, in Year 8 equivalent (we live abroad). We moved her after her 1st year of secondary for various reasons but now we are wishing we hadn't.

The teaching is nothing like as good as we were lead to believe, not as good as the previous place, apart from in a couple of subjects. And she has fallen in with a "cool" crowd of overindulged girls who distract each other in class and think it's nerdy to get good grades. At times she displays a horrible couldn't-care-less attitude to school and us. She is capable but her grades are slipping badly she is doing the absolute minimum of work.

I know some of this is her age and not just the school, but we are fast running out of patience with both her and the school. I have made an appointment to see her class teacher, but i'd be grateful for any other wisdom.

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castille · 04/03/2010 21:38

Thank you, ageing

You sound so much like me, and your DD2 just like my DD1. Her insolence is the worst thing to bear, she can answer back in such a hateful way sometimes

Neither DH nor I were like this at her age (or any age) so we are a bit at sea but we are learning fast.

Be reassured that we had a good laugh at her tragi-comic attempt at revenge last night!

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