We're starting to think of senior school for DS1 (although we have ages yet) and it makes me feel sick for lots of reasons, this being one of the lesser ones.
At my senior school toilets were covered in graffiti, blocked, overflowing, generally unpleasant places where there was a good chance of a bully lurking. Are they still like this? Is it unreasonable of me to ask to see the boys toilets when visiting schools, as I have boys?