So, did he work? Well, he went up to his room regularly, for blocks of time, saying he's revising. But did he meaningfully engage with the work? Clearly not. He also spent far too long on some subjects than others. So, he got a 7 in science because he focused on this - but other subjects where - by his own admission he felt he could wing it more - he didn't do enough. And then got a bad result.
He had a schedule which I helped him create - but he abandoned this, apparently. He did his homework at points saying it was revision, but it clearly wasn't.
He just didn't engage enough. He thought he would be ok, I guess. Previous mocks he got between 5s-8s. Enough to feel a bit laissez faire. I told him repeatedly these mocks matter for college applications. We tried to support, we insisted he go and revise. But we didn't get involved in what he was revising, which is clearly our failing.
He also has a social life he loves. Clearly, too much.
I've engaged with several teachers. They have all expressed that he must be disappointed and confirmed that he's capable of e.g. 7+. Which I take heart from, so he knows this is not where he should be.
And he is very much owning it. Very reflective, clear he didn't do enough. He's had a big shock. And he's ambitious and competitive. Hopefully, that will turn him around.
It's a total shitshow and unexpected, but we are here and we need to turn it around.
I have made a list of everything you've all said.
Would it be worth getting an exam technique tutor? I'm wondering if that's also a key issue.
Do they even exist?
Thank you all. I feel like I've really failed him, and I'm worried