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Everyone saw racism

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bushrabear · 25/11/2025 16:38

My darling 12 yo daughter's school have suggested the reason they have blocked me and caused so much distress for my family including my ex husband, daughter and me is because I and many parents witnessed rascism by the school. I am sure they will all state their observations.

I am happy to speak to the school in a formal meeting about their terrible communications and disproportionate response. So far they have not organised the communications I requested 2 months ago and with no formal meeting related to this have blocked me.

Surely this is a campaign of harassment by the school.Are they racist, they have been in full communication with my white ex husband throughout and even got him print off nhs notes he and the school have no access to.

If indeed I had mental health issues or was neurodiverse, they should be treating me more sensitively. By the way, my ex husband hugs me a lot because of the issues with the school.

Consequently making all court orders not actionable.

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Xmasdemon · 25/11/2025 16:56

I don't understand this

BlackCatGoesHome · 25/11/2025 16:56

I'm afraid that doesn't make any sense.

haveaword · 25/11/2025 16:58

Is this part way through a conversation with someone somewhere?

NotThatWay · 25/11/2025 16:59

It's hard to understand the situation here, OP.

PodMom · 25/11/2025 16:59

Are they accusing you of something? What does your ex think?

Staringintothevoid616 · 25/11/2025 17:02

Think you need to rewrite this - it makes no sense whatsoever

OhDear111 · 25/11/2025 17:06

A formal complaint will activate a meeting.

clary · 25/11/2025 17:08

Sorry @bushrabear your post reads as though this is a follow-up to an earlier discussion. If so can you link? If not, can you explain as we are all baffled.

BillieWiper · 25/11/2025 17:10

You or your child and others witnessed racism in school, raised a complaint or spoke about it trying to get a meeting, and the school have now blocked you?

If so I wouldn't call it harassment from their side. They could be alleging you're harassing them? I don't know what happened but you have a right to have a formal complaint seen and dealt with in a transparent manner.

GagMeWithASpoon · 25/11/2025 17:11

There are a lot of issues here, without the main issue being clear. It would be best to post again, starting from the beginning.

bushrabear · 26/11/2025 09:19

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bushrabear · 26/11/2025 09:20

additionally without one formal meeting with me, they have threatened to expel my daughter because apparently I told the lower school head it was my opinion she should be sacked over the handling of this matter and the ski teacher my daughter will not be going on any trips...I have terrible feeling about it and so does my ex husband....

the school are welcome to sort this out in a respectful way and contact me via my exhusband

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PaintYour · 26/11/2025 09:25

OP, even without all the duplicate posts, this makes no sense. If you want advice, you’ll need to explain from the beginning.

bushrabear · 26/11/2025 09:30

my computer is not working properly
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bushrabear · 26/11/2025 09:31

thank you for your patience with the worst technology in the world

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PluckyChancer · 26/11/2025 10:16

OP. This is really difficult to follow.

Can you write a simple factual timeline of what’s happened and when, as otherwise this reads as a stream of consciousness with no clear outline of the issues you’re affected by.

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