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11+ mocks - any miracle stories?!

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AskTony · 22/05/2025 07:49

Hi,

Feeling bad for DS at the moment. He sat his first mock 11+ at the weekend and scored around 55%. He is one of the top of his class in school and always does well with any bits of preparation we do at home and he thought he'd done ok so this came as a bit of a shock. I've not told him his score as I know he'll be upset and demotivated.

I guess I'm just wondering if anyone has any positive stories of poor mock performance but then doing well in the real thing? I've looked through his answers and a lot of them are what look like silly mistakes. There were only a handful that I thought were genuinely too hard for him or covered topics he hasn't covered in great depth yet.

I don't want a debate on grammar schools. I hate the system but I am from this area, my family are here and it's just where we live and something we're automatically part of. Almost every child at his school sits the exam and his friends are on track to do well and more than anything he wants to be at the same school as them. We do one hour with a tutor and bits at home. More tuition is not an option, either money-wise or wellbeing wise for DS!

The exam is September. Just feels like a long 3-4 months of dredging ourselves through somethign which we may already have a sign isn't going to be worth it.

Thank you :)

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m00rfarm · 08/07/2025 14:25

Of course he needs to know how he has done! If he can look over the test and see where the mistakes are, then he will learn, and then do better. If not, then don't let him do the test.

Sai35 · 31/08/2025 10:01

AskTony · 01/06/2025 10:54

Sorry, been away. Thanks everyone for all of your encouraging responses! I do feel a lot better now and having looked over his answers with him feel confident it's the techniques he needs to work on (pretty much all areas of technique!) more than anything so your suggestions have all been really helpful. I think he struggled with grasping how much time he had too - he said he didn't find working at speed a problem but in actual fact I think he panicked and missed final steps of the multi-part maths questions etc. And despite being good at actually 'doing' maths, there is some maths terminology he isn't so hot on (one question was about 'order of symmetry' which was a phrase he was unfamiliar with - once I explained the concept it was obviously an easy question to answer). So I might make him some maths terminology 'flash cards' to practice over the next few months too!

3.5 months to go and counting them down right now!

Hi! how is your DS getting on? Any further mocks with Newell or elsewhere? We’re also in Trafford

AskTony · 01/09/2025 12:06

Hi @Sai35!

Still very uncertain of how the final thing will go but he has done 4 mocks since and his score has steadily increased each time. The next exam he does will be the real thing and if his score increases at the same rate he will probably just about pass. So I'm holding onto that for the time being 😅. At home I'm confident he knows how to do everything that might come up, it's just the putting it into practice (almost all of his mistakes in the last one were silly and he spotted them right away).

How are you getting on with it all? 2 weeks today and then it's all over. We are all so ready for that!

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Sai35 · 01/09/2025 14:46

AskTony · 01/09/2025 12:06

Hi @Sai35!

Still very uncertain of how the final thing will go but he has done 4 mocks since and his score has steadily increased each time. The next exam he does will be the real thing and if his score increases at the same rate he will probably just about pass. So I'm holding onto that for the time being 😅. At home I'm confident he knows how to do everything that might come up, it's just the putting it into practice (almost all of his mistakes in the last one were silly and he spotted them right away).

How are you getting on with it all? 2 weeks today and then it's all over. We are all so ready for that!

We’re in the exact same boat! My DS has also attempted some mocks with scores steadily increasing, but unsure of how the real thing will go, hopefully they pass in 2 weeks 😅 i’m trying not to put too much pressure on him but it’s all very stressful! Will be glad when it’s all over in 2 weeks time, have you got a particular school in mind?

AskTony · 01/09/2025 21:35

Sai35 · 01/09/2025 14:46

We’re in the exact same boat! My DS has also attempted some mocks with scores steadily increasing, but unsure of how the real thing will go, hopefully they pass in 2 weeks 😅 i’m trying not to put too much pressure on him but it’s all very stressful! Will be glad when it’s all over in 2 weeks time, have you got a particular school in mind?

Yes same, trying to keep the pressure off as I don't think it will take much to ruin his confidence (and he does seem strangely confident at the moment)!

We are catchment for both Sale and Stretford, what about you? We went to look around Altrincham Boys but it definitely isn't right for him. I've got a couple of friends with kids at Stretford and they love it so I'd be pleased if he passed for that one alone to be honest!

Best of luck to your DS! 13 days to go now... 😖

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Sai35 · 02/09/2025 14:25

AskTony · 01/09/2025 21:35

Yes same, trying to keep the pressure off as I don't think it will take much to ruin his confidence (and he does seem strangely confident at the moment)!

We are catchment for both Sale and Stretford, what about you? We went to look around Altrincham Boys but it definitely isn't right for him. I've got a couple of friends with kids at Stretford and they love it so I'd be pleased if he passed for that one alone to be honest!

Best of luck to your DS! 13 days to go now... 😖

We’re also in catchment for Stretford but not Sale, DS loved Stretford open day so would be ecstatic if he manages to secure a place there too! Best of luck to your DS aswell 🥰

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