Welcome @ThisPerkySloth2! I’m only recently new and am pretty sure you’ll fit right in here- I just realised I didn’t really check first, I happened upon this thread and thought, “ Oh, thank God! I’m not alone”! 😹.. but, everyone has been SO welcoming and helpful!! So, you’ll fit right in! 🤩
I understand what you are saying about your DS and your concern for him. It’s a truly terrifying time at the mo, isn’t it? Well, you’ll find unwavering support here. The positive is that you have firm Plan A and Plan B’s for him, which is excellent. Am I right in that if a Plan C is needed, and the DT option at his current selective grammar, with travel to sister school, is not viable that you will need to find a different college/school entirely? With the hope he can study DT there? I don’t know of a UK universal site in which one can check, but that is to say that there isn’t one. We couldn’t find a way to search each so I can only advise what we did. We are on the border between counties, so my DS ( who won’t be staying on at his school) had the option, within an hour radius, of choosing between three colleges, one of which is in a separate country. He chose to apply to the one which is not normally chosen by students from his school who leave ( he has been badly bullied), he can get a bus from our village, has a nice “vibe” and he had a “good feeling” there, so we looked to see if they did the BTec he wants to do ( to hopefully go to Uni and then, or directly join the career he wishes to be in) and he was interviewed and has conditional place there. The college over the border has different applications as did his primary school as they are in a different county.
My advice would be to think of the colleges nearest to you, if they run similar course, and see if there is anything you know about them, perhaps chat to DS to see if he knows anyone there ( in random chat, if you don’t want him to know you are thinking of a Plan C back drop), reputation etc, and see what you can research online, and perhaps give them a call when they reopen ( I found the admissions teams really helpful at the colleges I called) and see what the procedure would be after results day ( if worst case scenario, but hopefully not, of course).
I am so sorry I can’t give any further advice but I just wanted to advise what we did for DS in applying to colleges where we really didn’t know much about any of them.
I wish and DS the 🤞 best of luck!