@TizerorFizz "So parents are seeking to get help for dc and not accepting dc are not that special. Schools don’t have the money and it’s not easy for anyone. There’s no answer to be honest."
C'mon, Tizer -think! Your statements above are not mutually exclusive:
Yes: some children struggle to access the age-related curriculum (note: as a primary school teacher with 25 years experience, I know that when a child struggles to access the age-related curriculum, additional targeted support and bespoke intervention almost always makes a tangible difference and improves outcomes for the child immensely).
Yes: some parents are noticing that their DC need additional support in order to access the age-related curriculum.
Yes: some parents choose to request referral for assessment in order to better understand their DC's needs and challenges -who wouldn't? Schools ask parents' permission to make referrals for investigation and support from allied professionals all the time. It has nothing to do with parents "not accepting that their DC are not special"; what does that even mean?! All children are special irrespective of whether or not they have additional needs and, what's more, all have an entitlement to an education which meets their needs. Schools being cash-strapped does not change this fundamental entitlement. It just makes it a bit more shit for everyone, and most of all the child or young person with SEN and their families who have the Sisyphean task of taking on the SEN system in Local Authorities (and, regrettably, some schools) in order to safeguard their children's right to an education.
@CurlyKoalie The reason you don't hear much about SEN funding in your role is most likely because there is very little SEN funding to go around, and so it doesn't come up. Allocation of support staff does not necessarily mean a child comes with funding, but rather that there is a recognised need and SENDCo has some capacity in staffing. Very little of SEN is funded, and your SEN department is likely cobbling together support with what resources they have to hand. It is your right (and, arguably, your responsibility as a teacher to be informed of the SEN of the pupils in your classes though. Your SENDCo should keep all staff up to date with this as you are contracted to fulfil the basic entitlement of every pupil's right to an education, and this includes meeting the needs of SEN pupils.