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Why dont all kids do the 11+ like they apparently did 40/50 years ago?

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PinkChaires · 16/02/2025 23:40

I am not from the UK and so i had no idea what a grammar school was when it came time for my dds to go to high school. By the time i found out it was two weeks before the test and apparently they had no chance at passing without tutoring ( trafford). Surely this disadvantages some kids? Kids who are smart but just simply do not have the opportunity to sit the test?

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CecilyP · 17/02/2025 16:53

MeanderingGently · 17/02/2025 12:30

I must be old fashioned but I find all this tutoring odd - has the 11+ changed so much then?
I did the 11+ and was never tutored, I passed.
Both my children did the 11+ in their day (Lincolnshire) and also passed, it never occurred to me to tutor them and we couldn't have afforded to even it it had.
Why is this suddenly a thing?

It's a competition. If a number of people start tutoring, the pass mark goes higher, so everyone else who wants their child to have a chance will also tutor. Whether it be with a paid tutor or by a well informed parent.

The Greenwich Judgement of 1990 also meant that schools could no longer prioritise children from their own LA. This meant that selective schools were open to children from adjoining non-selective areas. Win/win for both selective schools and selective areas. The selective schools get even better results and the LA is lauded as being high performing. This definitely affects areas like Trafford as per the OP. It doesn't really affect rural Lincolnshire in the same way as the majority of selective schools are not accessible from outside Lincolnshire.

FcukTheDay · 17/02/2025 16:54

cheseandme · 17/02/2025 09:08

My children all went to grammar school and their friends birthdays were spread across the year !
My youngest had 2friends at different grammar schools and both born 30th August.

My daughter is late summer born and goes to a grammar school. There are some silly comments.

CecilyP · 17/02/2025 17:19

CraftyNavySeal · 17/02/2025 12:31

In north London there is no 11+ but there are grammar schools and you have to pay to sit an exam for each school.

Completely bonkers and unfair, parents have to be in the know. Primary schools should be automatically putting forward the brightest kids.

Then the exams for the grammar schools will be an 11+. However, the schools will only be in a couple of outer London boroughs, and run the exams themselves, so how would primary schools have the faintest idea which families were even interested especially if they are not in their own LA.

CecilyP · 17/02/2025 17:24

JollyLilacBee · 17/02/2025 13:40

I think people understand why it happens, but it’s still the same outcome, the child that is tutored gets a ‘false’ score. So that child will be of lower ability than the kids who got that mark without extensive tutoring, and therefore will find it difficult to keep up. I don’t understand why a parent would want that for their child. My exSil did some pastoral work in our local grammar school, and a large amount of it was supporting these children.

That suggest more a problem with the actual exam and what it is comprised of rather than whether the children were tutored or not.

Plantatreetoday · 17/02/2025 17:24

Why don’t all kids do the 11plus like they used to.? ( before the midish 70s )

Academically selective education is a horrible system!
It labels children from a young age and, quite rightly, a comprehensive non selective system doesn’t stigmatise kids for the best part of their lives.

CecilyP · 17/02/2025 17:33

SleepyHippy3 · 17/02/2025 16:01

Not all of course but I think that truthfully many of the intensely tutored children, tutored incessantly for many years previously, would probably have not passed the 11 plus, if they had not been so intensely prepared. Compare this to the many children who pass the 11 plus, without any tuition, completely on their own merit. Surely if the child is capable enough they won’t need the tuition?

Edited

Well no, it's against the clock. Tutoring means they can answer the questions quickly, they don't have to ponder over them. Most of the children will be capable. Practice increases speed. That's where tutoring comes in.

scissy · 17/02/2025 17:39

I'm not against academic education. I am against the 11+. I think 11 is too young. It's a shame pretty much all areas in England have now moved to a primary/secondary model.
Areas that had middle schools, but did selection at the end of Y8, would work better I think.

Isn't that essentially "similar" to Germany? Although theirs is a teacher assessment/discussion I believe.

BreatheAndFocus · 17/02/2025 18:19

They not only need to pass, they need to get an extremely high mark! That in itself rules out less able children who aren’t going to be a 40%er untutored but then miraculously become a 95%er in the 11+ with tuition.

I paid for some weeks of tuition. I got good feedback from the tutor (who only tutored for 11+) and didn’t need to pay for loads of tuition. Once the child has got the hang of the papers and is performing at the top of their ability and remembering the tips then that’s it.

I don’t know anybody who has paid for years of tuition for the 11+. Nor any tutors that would offer that here actually. If you’re talking about general tutoring, then only one of my friends’ DC had that and it was a short term course for Maths.

HPFA · 17/02/2025 18:56

BreatheAndFocus · 17/02/2025 07:16

Parents wouldn’t have to pay for tutoring if the gov hadn’t got rid of so many grammar schools. Two of my DC go to them and have to travel to a neighbouring county, but they’re brilliant.

There’s not a single grammar in my county but there should be. There are comps that specialise in design, drama, etc etc. and that’s all a-ok apparently, but god forbid academic interest should be catered for. 🙄

I don't see the logic of this.

If you had grammars and secondary moderns as standard throughout the country then you'd presumably have 25% of children going to the grammars.

Which would mean maybe that if you knew your child was in the top 5% you'd not bother with tutoring but certainly almost everyone whose child was around the top half of their peer group would likely have tutoring to try and make sure they got in.

You're not ever going to have a system of grammars and secondary moderns where the vast majority of parents wouldn't want their kids to go to the grammar.

BreatheAndFocus · 17/02/2025 19:08

@HPFA If there were enough grammar school places, then parents wouldn’t pay for tuition because a Pass would be enough (so, say, around 70% or whatever) rather than the 99% mentioned above.

Yes, of course, some children might be borderline to pass, but you get my point (I hope). I disagree that most parents would want their children to go to a grammar if we had grammars and secondary moderns. In my DC’s year, there were some parents who actively wanted their children to go to a grammar school, me included, but most weren’t interested.

Wonderknicks · 17/02/2025 19:27

There are so many myths on this thread!
Summer born children are not disadvantaged because the scores are age standardized.
No state grammar schools charge people to sit the exams.

UnimaginableWindBird · 17/02/2025 19:37

@BreatheAndFocus there are no grammars in my county either, and none within commuting distance. And you know what? The academic kids do just fine, because the comprehensives are genuinely comprehensive and cater to their needs.

If I lived in an area with grammar schools, of course I would have sent my kids to one, but they would both have missed out. DD, although capable of getting top grades, is fundamentally a practical and creative person, and very few grammar schools offer sewing and textile art at the level she needed. DS is more of an academic all-rounder, but he really values his friendships with friends who aren't so academic. And being able to go to the nearest school is a huge bonus.

Iloveeverycat · 17/02/2025 19:45

Both of my brothers went to Grammar school in the 70s everyone took the 11+ last year of junior school in those days they didn't have private tuition. When I reached final year in 76 it had been stopped.

BreatheAndFocus · 17/02/2025 19:46

Then you’re lucky @UnimaginableWindBird and I’m glad your children are thriving. The comps near me are bad and DC refused to attend our local one after a visit. I looked quite a way away for better comps and couldn’t find any. Travel would have been a problem too if I had found one. With DC’s friends going to the grammar in the next county, great reports about it, and transport to the door, it was ideal - and DC’s choice.

DC still sees local friends - because they went to the grammar too. The friends who didn’t are still DC’s friends and they all get along together. No-one thinks DC is any better or worse for going to a grammar, and DC sees her friends as just friends, and their relationships are the same. They’re happy, DC is happy.

stargirl1701 · 17/02/2025 19:49

There are none left in Scotland.

HPFA · 17/02/2025 20:56

BreatheAndFocus · 17/02/2025 19:08

@HPFA If there were enough grammar school places, then parents wouldn’t pay for tuition because a Pass would be enough (so, say, around 70% or whatever) rather than the 99% mentioned above.

Yes, of course, some children might be borderline to pass, but you get my point (I hope). I disagree that most parents would want their children to go to a grammar if we had grammars and secondary moderns. In my DC’s year, there were some parents who actively wanted their children to go to a grammar school, me included, but most weren’t interested.

If you live in an area where there are only a few super selective grammar schools then that might well be the case.

But I don't see why you think that in a 20/25% grammar system parents wouldnt do everything to try and ensure their kid was in that %. Bucks has a system where there are places for the top 20/25 % in the grammars and tutoring is certainly extremely common there.

If you think that kids overall do better beibg separated at 11 then by all means make the case but I think the idea this would remove tutoring flies in the face of evidence from Bucks and Kent.

HPFA · 17/02/2025 20:58

BreatheAndFocus · 17/02/2025 19:46

Then you’re lucky @UnimaginableWindBird and I’m glad your children are thriving. The comps near me are bad and DC refused to attend our local one after a visit. I looked quite a way away for better comps and couldn’t find any. Travel would have been a problem too if I had found one. With DC’s friends going to the grammar in the next county, great reports about it, and transport to the door, it was ideal - and DC’s choice.

DC still sees local friends - because they went to the grammar too. The friends who didn’t are still DC’s friends and they all get along together. No-one thinks DC is any better or worse for going to a grammar, and DC sees her friends as just friends, and their relationships are the same. They’re happy, DC is happy.

If the friends who didnt go to the grammar are happy it rather suggests the comps aren't actually that bad?

Plantatreetoday · 17/02/2025 21:14

BreatheAndFocus · 17/02/2025 18:19

They not only need to pass, they need to get an extremely high mark! That in itself rules out less able children who aren’t going to be a 40%er untutored but then miraculously become a 95%er in the 11+ with tuition.

I paid for some weeks of tuition. I got good feedback from the tutor (who only tutored for 11+) and didn’t need to pay for loads of tuition. Once the child has got the hang of the papers and is performing at the top of their ability and remembering the tips then that’s it.

I don’t know anybody who has paid for years of tuition for the 11+. Nor any tutors that would offer that here actually. If you’re talking about general tutoring, then only one of my friends’ DC had that and it was a short term course for Maths.

A friend of ours paid for all four children to attend a private primary. Known locally as the Grammar crammer as entry from there to the grammars was/ is 100%.
With all of their kids they had private tutors as well ( for approx 2years ) and with their youngest they started private 1/1 at age 6! Simply because they knew ( their words ) he wouldn’t get in.

So that’s a grammar crammer age 4 to 11 ( class size 12 ) plus private 1/1 for 5 years. ( plus mum who was a teacher )

People where we used to live were desperate as the alternative schools were in special measure mainly because the haves and the have nots were so clearly divided.
It really depended on who could pay for tutoring and how long for.
The average was two years apparently ( although generally people kept that all a bit quiet 😆😆)

crumpleduppieceofpaper · 17/02/2025 22:16

@BreatheAndFocus it depends where you live. In bucks, we are a full grammar county but you only have to get the pass mark (121) to guarantee a place if you're in catchment. I know different areas look at scores first, but not here, it's really straightforward.

I think every area does it slightly differently, and the tests are different too.

marmaladeandpeanutbutter · 17/02/2025 22:41

I'm very much against it. I took it myself and passed it, but I don't think it sets up healthy dynamics in communities or families. The hierarchy it creates causes problems.

Moglet4 · 17/02/2025 23:11

CecilyP · 17/02/2025 16:53

It's a competition. If a number of people start tutoring, the pass mark goes higher, so everyone else who wants their child to have a chance will also tutor. Whether it be with a paid tutor or by a well informed parent.

The Greenwich Judgement of 1990 also meant that schools could no longer prioritise children from their own LA. This meant that selective schools were open to children from adjoining non-selective areas. Win/win for both selective schools and selective areas. The selective schools get even better results and the LA is lauded as being high performing. This definitely affects areas like Trafford as per the OP. It doesn't really affect rural Lincolnshire in the same way as the majority of selective schools are not accessible from outside Lincolnshire.

That is applicable to Alty Boys but not to the other Trafford grammars - once you have obtained a pass, they are allocated by distance with priority postcodes. For only two of them, 20 places are awarded according to score and irrespective of distance.

CecilyP · 18/02/2025 10:45

Moglet4 · 17/02/2025 23:11

That is applicable to Alty Boys but not to the other Trafford grammars - once you have obtained a pass, they are allocated by distance with priority postcodes. For only two of them, 20 places are awarded according to score and irrespective of distance.

No, according to their website, the catchment area for Altrincham girls is an 8 mile radius. That takes in a fair bit of south Manchester, a little of Salford, some of the north of East Cheshire and some of the east of Warrington. The Catholic schools prioritise on the basis of pastoral area but I've no idea if they are all in Trafford or not.

On the other hand, take an 8 mile radius of most selective schools in rural Lincolnshire and you'd still be in Lincolnshire, or in the sea!

yoshiblue · 18/02/2025 11:01

The Catholic Grammars definitely include pastoral areas not part of Trafford LA (Chorlton is one). Stretford Grammar's priority postcodes also include Chorlton and potentially another postcode that isn't all Trafford LA.

Moglet4 · 18/02/2025 11:15

Alty girls IS 8 miles though they’ve been filled within 5 miles for the last 5 years. It’s why house prices around me are ludicrous. The score is not taken into consideration as long as it’s a pass, then after looked after kids etc it’s strictly by distance with WA14, WA15 and M33 given priority (deliberately or not, maybe there’s just enough kids who’ve passed within those postcodes to fill the places).

BigBlueRhino · 18/02/2025 11:18

UnimaginableWindBird · 17/02/2025 08:27

I don't see why grammar school areas are seen as so desirable. I live in area with no grammars and excellent comprehensives, which seems far better, and allows for multiple paths for children to take. All of my friends have sent their children to their local comprehensive, and their university destinations don't seem any different from kids in a grammar school area.

Because it's an advantage when it comes to applying for jobs .

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