My mother put me under such intense pressure to pass the 11+, started talking about how important it was, around 2 years before.
The nearer it got the pressure was ramped up and further bribes were offered, like a suede coat (quite ridiculous for a growing 11 year old and they were very expensive).
All I got was pressure, no help with studying for it and having a July birthday I was one of the youngest taking it.
It was a school in Sheffield called Notre Dame, vast amount of uniform and quite a long journey being bussed in. It was a single sex school.
I'm 100% convinced it was for her own perception of her social standing, not my education.
I wrecked her life by not passing and remember being dragged around with her, knocking on the girls doors who did pass and questioning them and their parents, I was embarrassed.
I only ever saw the scrapping of this exam to be a good thing.