@TreeSquirrel Not sure I follow your thought process here: surely your point is not that, since your school does not have certain stupid rules, then no school in the country has those stupid rules????
The allegations about shouting at children to instil fear, the seminars on 'healthy fear' etc at Mossbourne were discussed in the two articles linked in the first post. We're talking about a hundred parents, 30 former students and 8 former teachers who have come forward.
Ashcroft Academy bans bicycles and gives detentions to students caught cycling to school . See the link to their official policy https://www.reddit.com/r/londoncycling/comments/1figz90/ashcroft_secondary_school_bans_bicycles_how_legal/
Holderness Academy put a student in isolation for wearing an Asda skirt which was 99% identical, but cheaper, than the official one. Look at the comparison pictures on the BBC website https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-humber-66812748
Other examples were discussed in this thread: https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/secondary/5168466-how-common-are-detentions-at-secondary?page=9&reply=138524258
This academy wanted a medical certificate for period pain (I think they backed down after a public outcry): https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/cly4zd8xp74o
This other academy wanted parents to send children even when unwell "because they have first aiders", but ultimately backed down https://www.theguardian.com/education/2024/oct/12/uk-academies-very-sorry-for-policies-saying-pupils-must-attend-when-unwell
Mumsnet is full of stories of schools not allowing their children to wear a lighter uniform / not allowing them to wear PE kit / forcing them to wear blazers during heatwaves. Absolutely full.
There was another story about a school not allowing students to wear coats while in the playground, with pictures of coat-wearing teachers telling students to remove their coats.
Another one about a school not allowing any other coat nor any other layer other than the school-mandated ones, so students who felt cold were not even allowed to wear non-descriptive, logoless black or navy or grey vests or jumpers or anything.
I mean, there are times where I wear a rolled up shirt in the office while the person next to me literally wears a down jacket - by the same logic, should one of us be fired??
I could go on, but the point is simple: the country is full of schools, typically unaccountable academies, constantly coming up with batshit crazy policies. If your child's school isn't one of them, I am happy for your child, but it means absolutely nothing. Nothing.