@Soontobe60
What is clear is that you’ve got a massive chip on your shoulder! Is your ex a Head of an academy?
My ex? Personal attacks are the last resort of those who cannot reply to the argument.
Not that it's any of your business, but I remain happily married to my spouse of many years.
We have both witnessed directly (on ourselves) and indirectly (on people close to us) the damaging effect that bullying in toxic workplaces can have on a person's mental health. I can only hope you never have to see a person close to you reduced to an emotional wreck, unable to sleep, to eat, and to function.
So yes, you can bet your <insert expletive of choice her> that I have a <insert 2nd expletive> massive chip on my shoulder about bullying and toxic behaviour.
Bullying in a toxic school environment is possibly even worse because the students are less mature and have fewer options to leave (vs adults in a workplace), especially if their parents don't notice or just tell them to suck it up.
In fact, I despise people like you possibly even more than the toxic bullies themselves, because you with your attitude act as enablers of that kind of toxic behaviour. If fewer people acted like you and more people had the guts to stand up and say: "no, this ain't right" it would be a better world.
@AllProperTeaIsTheft
Teacher here. I mostly agree with your first post, but your comments about sexually repressed HTs makes you sound like a loon, sorry. Imo these people are mostlt just very ambitious and far too black and white about the end justifying the means.
You do you. I stand by what I said. I have explained before, and clarified just above, why I am particularly sensitive to anything to do with bullying and toxic environments, and why I have learnt to see certain behaviours as gigantic red flags.
@Soontobe60
So how can a school make so much progress if their students are allegedly being screamed at on a daily basis? The answer is, they can’t. Therefore perhaps the claims of such behaviour from staff to students are somewhat exaggerated.
Wrong. Why do you think that? On what basis - other than ideology and preconceptions, of course?
It is perfectly possible to get good academic results at the expense of students' mental health. Many Asian countries are a testament to this very fact.
Previous generations obtained good academic results in schools with corporal punishments!!