Nice to hear everyone's updates and good luck to all your dc for starting sixth form or college.
Can anyone help me, feeling a bit desperate. Dd narrowly missed the entry requirements for her school sixth form by 2 points (needed 46 points from 8 best GCSEs, she got 44). She appealed to the Head which was turned down. We have submitted English and History papers for review and are waiting to hear. I'm not too hopeful but if her grades go up by 2 overall, her current school will have to accept her.
In the meantime, she had the option of another (state) school or a small private school. The state school is lovely but the journey is an issue and I think she would find it exhausting (she is ASD and has a lot of anxiety). The private school is very close to home, we put in a late application, she went for an interview and they offered her a place.
She attended yesterday but came home and said she hates it and isn't going back. Her reasons include - it's a very long day (finishing at 4.10pm), they don't offer one of her subject choices (Sociology), they encourage an EPQ which she doesn't want to do, and as she's new they all know each other and is worried people won't like her.
I want her to look at college courses, our local college offers a BTEC in Dance which would suit her (she's a keen dancer) and is the equivalent of 3 A Levels. Lots of plusses her - everyone is new so in the same boat, BTEC much less stressful than A Levels, she can come and go as she pleases and it's relatively local to home. Her reason why she doesn't want to go? The lack of uniform. She said it's too stressful to decide what to wear every day.
I have pointed out many many times that no sixth form will offer ALL her wishes, she will have to make some compromises. But all I hear is that she doesn't want to move schools.
I am so scared she will become a NEET. Any advice please?