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What happened to the Brighton College thread?

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Lollipop180 · 29/03/2023 18:57

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Pottedpalm · 29/03/2023 22:23

Went the way of the Queen Ethelburga’s ones?

HealthConcern · 29/03/2023 22:23

Why?

Pottedpalm · 30/03/2023 06:46

I was speculating; Queen Ethelburga’s were/are very efficient at getting threads deleted if they didn’t like the views expressed.

cty · 30/03/2023 07:31

Wow, talk about censorship man! I was following the BC thread.

Dodgeitornot · 30/03/2023 09:55

BC often do this. They have a prep opening in London, can't afford negative press.

Sorryyoufeelthatway · 30/03/2023 09:57

What did it say? Hot house? Gets rid of whoever they deem thickos? I went there, would not send my kids.

Dodgeitornot · 30/03/2023 09:58

@Sorryyoufeelthatway It was actually quite balanced tbf.

CruCru · 30/03/2023 13:51

It’s weird when schools do this - it makes them look insecure. There seems to be a thread slagging off Eton every other day but they appear to be fairly indifferent.

farfallarocks · 30/03/2023 20:20

It really says a lot about BC that they get threads deleted

Dodgeitornot · 30/03/2023 20:28

@CruCru I agree. Puts me off a school more than any negative comments

WEEonline · 31/03/2023 02:52

Debating at BC must be amazing. Don’t like what the other is saying? Shut it down😜

Kokeshi123 · 31/03/2023 03:50

Agree. I am from the north of England and have warned several people I know in RL away from Queen Ethelburgas after following some of the threads here and the censorship that happened. It left a bad taste in my mouth.

No school will please everyone and every school has its weak points, but trying to shut down the discussion makes a school look really bloody dodgy, seriously.

BC PR people if you are reading this, just give it a rest; you are making yourself look bad by trying to get MN to pull threads.

ngs · 31/03/2023 07:06

How does a school remove a thread on a public forum operated by (I presume) an independent party?! By way of a threat of a lawsuit?

Dodgeitornot · 31/03/2023 08:15

ngs · 31/03/2023 07:06

How does a school remove a thread on a public forum operated by (I presume) an independent party?! By way of a threat of a lawsuit?

Yes, usually lawyers.

Bananasplit80 · 31/03/2023 12:17

I think the problem with the BC thread was that so many people were posting opinions without any actual experience of the school. Going to an open day/knowing someone who once went to a school isn’t the same. Everyone can have an opinion (I have several on Steiner/Waldorf schools but wouldn’t dream of posting comments about them as I don’t have first hand experience). The original poster had asked for comments from parents with children at the school, not from a load of people who don’t like the sound of it.

Dodgeitornot · 31/03/2023 19:50

@Bananasplit80 That's fine but that's just part and parcel of social media and happens to all schools, forcing a thread down makes you look like you do have something to hide.

Bananasplit80 · 31/03/2023 20:00

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Bananasplit80 · 31/03/2023 20:05

@Dodgeitornot

What happened to the Brighton College thread?
dylexicdementor11 · 31/03/2023 20:45

Bananasplit80 · 31/03/2023 20:05

@Dodgeitornot

I am the OP of the BC thread and I didn’t ask mumsnet to erase it.

redrobin75 · 31/03/2023 20:50

@dylexicdementor11 , wow, the power of a school's marketing dept!

Bananasplit80 · 31/03/2023 20:51

dylexicdementor11 · 31/03/2023 20:45

I am the OP of the BC thread and I didn’t ask mumsnet to erase it.

So sorry I didn’t realise that! Point taken, I’ll delete my comments.

dylexicdementor11 · 31/03/2023 20:56

dylexicdementor11 · 31/03/2023 20:45

I am the OP of the BC thread and I didn’t ask mumsnet to erase it.

Yes, I’m actually quite shocked. I’ll get in touch with mumsnet. I’d like to know why they would say I asked the thread to be taken down.

Dodgeitornot · 31/03/2023 21:26

@Bananasplit80 that's always what they say

Lollipop180 · 01/04/2023 08:40

dylexicdementor11 · 31/03/2023 20:56

Yes, I’m actually quite shocked. I’ll get in touch with mumsnet. I’d like to know why they would say I asked the thread to be taken down.

Oh my word! So mumsnet are prepared to lie! I suppose they will take this down now too.
I didn’t think there was anything very damning in thee original thread; some obviously disgruntled parents whose children had not been accepted for the College but also those with ( or knowing of) current pupils who are thriving and very happy.

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Dodgeitornot · 31/03/2023 21:26

@Bananasplit80 that's always what they say

I had no idea! Thanks for enlightening me. Also I hope in all of the chat you managed to find the info on the school you were looking for.