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Waiting list - positive experiences

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number1miss · 16/03/2023 22:08

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Hello..I need positive secondary school waiting list stories please.

I just need a pick me up today, hoping you could share your positive experiences with your child’s waiting list experiences, Please.

Thanks so much

Fellow stressed parent : )

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Secondary23 · 12/05/2023 19:35

@schoolstress1 sorry we are different area, we are in Northants but it seems everywhere has the same problem

Secondary23 · 12/05/2023 19:40

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Secondary23 · 12/05/2023 19:50

@Turquoiseturtle3 I understand them holding for a short while but they must know by now if they are taking it. Hard on those waiting for a place who haven't got one or didn't get any preferences

Turquoiseturtle3 · 12/05/2023 19:58

Secondary23 · 12/05/2023 19:50

@Turquoiseturtle3 I understand them holding for a short while but they must know by now if they are taking it. Hard on those waiting for a place who haven't got one or didn't get any preferences

Agreed!!! So selfish of them. Hopefully they will start to release. If they are going private, fees have to be paid! There was a lot of “just in case” excuses apparently

Priyavk1 · 13/05/2023 08:23

Hi can I ask in general is there movement on the WL? I've heard a lot about private school offers do they happen around this time? Appreciate any advice as WL seems a constant source of worry

Secondary23 · 17/05/2023 10:39

@Priyavk1 we found out yesterday that we have been offered our second choice and have accepted. There is movement but apparently the councils have been super busy so are a little more delayed than usual. Good luck! Lots can still happen between now and September especially with transition days if people don't show up.

Priyavk1 · 17/05/2023 11:38

Wow! Congratulations Secondary 23! How amazing!

For Bucks the next allocation round is 16 June and then 3 July when we find out our updated WL position

We did find our WL position for Slough school 166!!!! Yes !!! For Ditton Academy! So makes 13 doable!

Fingers crossed we get good news email at some point!

Congratulations once again to you and your DC,

Secondary23 · 17/05/2023 12:21

@Priyavk1 thank you and good luck! Stay positive Smile

Turquoiseturtle3 · 06/06/2023 20:31

Any positive movement on the waiting lists for anyone?

Priyavk1 · 07/06/2023 07:03

Hi Turquoiseturtle3 we are still waiting to see what happens on next allocation round set for 16th June and 3rd July when we find out our final WL position. We are position 13 and 15 for our preferred schools in Bucks but we live in Berkshire. And only 2.42 miles from our preferred school.

On Friday we have our admission appeal hearing too , so definitely feeling the stress

Good luck to all those waiting ❤

Turquoiseturtle3 · 07/06/2023 15:58

Why are the waiting list positions final? Best of luck with the appeal!!

number1miss · 07/06/2023 20:02

No update from me - 50’s on first choice school and 30’s for second choice. Lost one appeal for second choice school this week :(

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Turquoiseturtle3 · 07/06/2023 20:09

Oh no, fingers crossed for your second appeal (presuming there is one). Do you have any idea on how much movement there is for your first and second choices? The council should be able to say how many further offers they have made previously to give you an idea../

Secondary23 · 22/06/2023 13:06

Hi Everyone

So a further update from our rollercoaster journey! We have just been offered our 1st choice school, my DD is over the moon! We never thought it would happen as the school is massively oversubscribed every year but are very grateful. Just in time for transition.

Don't give up hope, we went from nothing to this piece of amazing news! Good Luck to everyone still waiting xx

Turquoiseturtle3 · 22/06/2023 16:10

Amazing news. Congrats. And just in time for the transition day - lucky

Priyavk1 · 04/07/2023 18:34

Hi everyone
So yesterday we found out our final WL before the holidays we are now at position 3 (were 15) .
What would people rate our chances?
It is for a grammar school place
Many thanks

Turquoiseturtle3 · 04/07/2023 20:58

Why is it your final waiting list position? What happens if day 5 people give up their place… sorry, don’t know how the grammar offering system works…

Priyavk1 · 05/07/2023 06:17

Hi Turquoiseturtle3

So I say it's final as we now won't be told our WL position anymore.

Now parents will only be contacted if a space becomes available

This is fir Bucks LA and they have made it very clear that parents must tell them whether they want to stay on WL by 9 July otherwise they will assume they are happy with the place offered.

I'm glad there has been some movement on the WL, I just don't know if it's enough now to get us a place by September.

Which I suspect is an impossible question to answer.

Fingers and everything crossed

Turquoiseturtle3 · 05/07/2023 07:51

Oh, good luck. The waiting is torture. Is there any kind of forum where people try and track between themselves?

Priyavk1 · 05/07/2023 10:53

Many thanks I'm not aware of any, but yes it would be good to know

Yes definitely the wait is horrible:(

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