@Cuppasoupmonster
I think the obvious answer to my musings is that my dd is "up against it" should we get her to 11 plus stage.
That's pretty obvious, she's starting from behind for sure.
If she wasn't, coupled with... seemingly catching up really fast, I wouldn't have bothered to ask this question.
My question was specifically, has anyone DC been working at "expected" and still passed the 11 plus.
It wasn't, "should I put my DC forward for the test". However I don't mind more random answers because one sometimes learns something new.
I don't want to go into more detail that would be extremely outing but she's not been working at expecting her entire school caere and she's verbally very bright and fast as DC who present with dyslexia can be.
The biggest issue against us is that she isn't in any way a prolific reader.
I know very well how this really disadvantages her.
But we could plug that gap with other means.
There are many considerations we face but not all grammar schools are evil accademic factories where DC are left bullied, pushed and stressed.
Ironically it's actually the comp that is like this.
But what I'm interested in is other people's journey that hasn't been straight forward.
That's all.