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Mistaken Identity?

34 replies

IsItAllAMistake · 17/10/2022 18:28

Want to pick your brains on something - I really want to believe my daughter and my gut says she’s telling the truth - but we all know that things aren’t always what they seem.

DD is one of those kids who always does their best, is kind, polite, and excels in most subjects. Never had a sanction or demerit in her life, and school reports always sing her praises. Just an all round nice kid and she makes me exceptionally proud.

She is at an independent school and holds a scholarship in a creative subject. Her teacher this year is new to the school. Just got her first report and this teacher has given her the lowest possible grade. DD is in floods of tears and really doesn’t understand it. Then she “clicked”. She sits next to and looks very similar to another girl who is very easily distracted - low level disruption, chatting etc. There have been several instances where the teacher has told my DD to stop talking (using her name) when she isn’t- it’s this other girl.

DD is convinced that the teacher has got them muddled up. It is literally the only thing she can think of. I mean, just how likely is this or is she just trying to come up with an excuse to cover her arse?

OP posts:
rainuntilseptember · 18/10/2022 07:37

I think it would be too hard to shout it out in class, but waiting at the end for a word one-to-one is the approach I would recommend.
You emailing about it will have the same end result!

00100001 · 18/10/2022 07:42

They're wasting their time giving you and effort/progress mark for Drama in Y7 after 6 weeks....

ordinarilyordinary · 18/10/2022 08:13

They're wasting their time giving you and effort/progress mark for Drama in Y7 after 6 weeks....

It could be a Scottish school you know? They are in week 11

wydlondon · 18/10/2022 08:37

Regardless of whether it is mistaken identity or not, if the grades for a subject is low, I would contact the school and teacher anyway.

00100001 · 18/10/2022 13:37

ordinarilyordinary · 18/10/2022 08:13

They're wasting their time giving you and effort/progress mark for Drama in Y7 after 6 weeks....

It could be a Scottish school you know? They are in week 11

it could be in Scotland yes. but I'll bet 50p it isn't

Besides, if there's no written work as OP said, what are they tracking? how are they measuring "progress"? Progress against what? Measured how? It's an utter waste of time. They can give an 'effort' mark, sure like "outstanding/Good/Incosisntent/Poor" Whatever words they choose - but you can't track progress against something with nothing...

Notmenottodaynotever · 18/10/2022 13:39

Written work isn't the only process!
Maybe they have acted out a scene from a play.
PE don't only measure progress against the odd written task.

Pinkbananas01 · 18/10/2022 13:45

Could be Scotland, we've already had 1st progress tracking reports for 2 teens & online parents night for older one

00100001 · 18/10/2022 13:58

Notmenottodaynotever · 18/10/2022 13:39

Written work isn't the only process!
Maybe they have acted out a scene from a play.
PE don't only measure progress against the odd written task.

So how do you think they measured the Y7 baseline for Drama initially?

How do you think they can mark progress against that subjectively - what is a measure of "excellent progress" in this case?

00100001 · 18/10/2022 15:50

Objectively*

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