So my DS is in year 7. We have had a lot of problems with anxiety and school refusal, though he has not missed a day yet. Unfortunately he has a nasty cough and cold and is feeling pretty rubbish. If we were in Primary school I would have let him miss a day or two to get some rest, but it feels like they cover so much so quickly in their lessons at secondary that even missing a day means the kid falls behind. What do you all do about secondary school and illness? Am I over worrying, or am I right to make him go in unless he has a fever or vomiting etc?