DD wants to move from private to state

[SakaSpuds]

DD (13) is at a very good mixed independent school.

She's asked whether we'd consider sending her to a state school instead. She's quite left wing and I think this is what's motivating it.

I've said I'll look into it but I wondered what other people thought? Issues for me are:

• the local state schools nearby are substantially less good than her current school in terms of results (at her current school, 93% of GCSEs are 7,8 or 9, whereas at our best local state it's about 25%)

• the facilities are much worse as is the range of subjects offered. I'm not sure she appreciates how different certain aspects will be.

• I haven't talked to DD about this yet but of course the local state may be oversubscribed, in which case it may not even be possible or she may end up somewhere much further away. (I haven't looked into any of this yet- we've only just started talking about it.)

• On the other hand, I respect her views and think it's an admirable position.

Struggling to see whether, as her mum, it's my job to get her the best education I can (which would mean staying where she was, which is what I would prefer) and she can make her choices for her own kids, if she has them, later. Or should I be letting her decide this?

(In terms of other reasons she might want to leave, she's in quite an intense group of friends at her current school- lots of dramas and issues- and I think she's finding that all a bit stressful. Not sure moving schools is necessarily going to help with that.)

We have had this in real life - dh and I both well spoken professionals have had people assume we were privately educated and come out with some real corker comments assuming they are “amongst friends” 😁. Have had jaws drop when finding out we both went to rural comps and aren’t actually knife wielding haitch dropping oiks 😁

If she’s left wing, she should stay where she is and leave the state school places to those who can’t afford private.

Some schools start GCSES in year 9. Choices of options may vary too. My DD goes to a selective state school but has quite a narrow choice of options. Several of her friends go to a different school and have a much wider choice.
Our local fee paying school has fantastic sports facilities and extra curricular options, DD's school, despite being academically fantastic is actually pretty poor with sports/clubs.
Year 8 can be quite turbulent for relationships, and I would be curious to find out why your DD is thinking of moving school.
Given how many state schools are now academies, I wouldn't particularly say it's a political improvement to change either.