Ah, have found you all. I was quite involved in the year 11 threads but had dropped out.
How are people's DC getting on?? Or more to the point are other struggling with motivating their DC or got any advice?
DS is hoping to apply for Cambridge but has lost motivation and just received some exam results back one still to come but the others were 2x Bs and a C. Now he knows why he got the B's as he missed a chunk of a paper out due to a timing misunderstanding (home exams and double maths hence 2 grades for the same subject). The C was for chemistry when he got an A in the end of term test for last term and therefore assumed he knew it...
So, how to motivate him and give him the tools he needs to learn? He is one of those that didn't really have to work at GCSE so the whole doing extra thing is new to be honest. We talked about him doing an hour a day over and above lessons/homework and he genuinely asked me what he would do in it. (Not being cocky but he really did not know what to do)
I think he is capable of getting the 3xA*s and 1A required for Cambridge (which I should add is his wish not mine particularly). We said just last week that he had a choice of whether to put in the extra work and get the grades (whether he gets in to Cambridge or not) or whether to do less work and still get decent grades but not at his potential. I said I thought he would regret the later option.
But how to motivate the poor kid when he is sat in a study on his own all day. He very rarely goes out and seems exhausted by this lockdown (he is usually very robust mentally so this is new).
Also on a grades side, if he's going to step up he needs to do it pdq as presumably the predictions will come from the summer exams.
His older brother was not academic so this is new to us. As is the whole university application thing, well we both went but 30 years ago! How to get them to be proactive about it all??
We have a virtual parents evening this week so we were wondering about messaging the teachers first as there is that capability. But what would we say?
Sorry, all a bit lost and would love to have some guidance from anyone!