the only doors that are closed to her, I think?
hmc you are right of course. The doors that are closed are by and large ones that wouldn’t suit her learning style anyway so it was bound to happen at some point.
Logically I can see that and I know it could have been much worse (for her). It’s watching her see that gap between her and her peers and this is the third DC I have watched this happen to and I don’t like it in the moment.
Her school don’t do end of year exams before gcse which doesn’t help with her (or me) getting a realistic sense of her exam performance or her developing a history of having exam concessions.
Thank you for your thoughts. They weren’t clumsy at all. All the comments and support in response to my whinge have been entirely in the spirit of the thread, supportive with a bit of kind challenge 
I wrote my long update post with tears rolling down my cheeks hoping for a sympathetic hearing and that somebody would get it. I feel a lot better for it and for all your comments.
for kick. It’s a bit chilly on my sofa.