No, they don’t.
Yes, they do. We have been fee paying parents for 7yrs now and believe me when I say fee paying parents are very vociferous when it comes to getting what they want. There are enough threads on MN alone that shows fee paying parents do complain about their schools.
Many fee paying parents accept all sorts of poor teaching from independent schools bIn poor performing independent school, parents have often chosen a school to be with like minded parents, a haven for their child, or just a nice little schoolecause they are in a poor position to compare them with other schools.
This doesn’t make any sense. Parents have chosen a poor school to be with like minded parents? Really ? The rest of what you’ve written here is an incoherent ramble.
I’m thinking what you are trying to say is some parents choose a school with good pastoral care over high academics. Nothing wrong with that at all and does not make the school a poor school and if they are getting what they have paid for, then what is there to complain about? I’m sure they are not choosing good pastoral care plus bugger all GCSEs.
In poor performing independent school, parents have often chosen a ...a haven for their child, or just a nice little school. They are hardly comparing outcomes or high quality extra curricular.
How on earth would you know why a particular group of parents have chosen a particular school? You seem very judgemental and opinionated over something that really you don’t have the full facts for.
Therefore they are highly invested because they have chosen a non mainstream school and need it to work, so will support it through thick and thin.
They don’t need it to work, they can vote with their feet and usually do.
Being supportive and committed to a school is a very different position to needing it to work. One is strong and confident whilst the other is desperate and with no other choice.
I’m not even going to bother with the logical and objective comments except nothing you’ve said is logical or objective.
As for Chalfont grammar being a roaring success or not, like I said I’m not a parent there, so can’t comment. But I see no reason, why parents who are actually at the school will come on to say it’s a good school if in fact it’s as awful as you say. Surely they could just keep schtum and lick their wounds in private, they didn’t have to post, but they did. Think about it.