Long story short, I'd love to hear some RL experiences about travel times from SW13 or thereabouts to Twickenham - at school travel times! I get the impression its often about an hour, either by train and walking or by the very slow 33 bus.
Basically, my youngest (academically bright, sensitive, deep thinker and prone to worrying) dd has the lucky problem of a choice to make. We're not remotely religious, but she loved St Catherines because it felt gentle and safe: I think it is too far, when she also has the choice of KHS (her sister's school) or possibly PHS (on wait list).
But every time I try and type the refusal email, I can't quite 
Is it best to keep journey times short, and trust we can empower dd to cope with more socially or academically competitive atmospheres - or slog the journey and go for what might be the best fit? Hard to tell what is the best fit, of course, at this age and stage.
Some MN commonsense might well help - if anyone has some to offer I'd be grateful!