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justsomeone1 · 20/11/2017 22:40

DS since back end of last School term my DS has been
Pushed in front of a car
Hit after school
Called names walking home
Called names in school ( thick pathetic dummy idiot etc etc )
Knocked down stairs
I’ve had lies spread about me saying I’ve called friends children awful names which in turn is the same time my friends child was told off by friend due to being cruel with the bullies to my DS. I’ve had witnesses at school saying children asking for police on me.
He’s had litter thrown at him in the yard caught on cctv after he rang me in tears.
DS has potential dyslexia so the words are hurtful as low self esteem anyway. Threats to hurt himself
I’ve sent email to senco for the last 3 weeks to ring me
I’ve been in to school
I’ve emailed pastoral
I’ve talked to head of year.
I’ve now moved onto deputy head
I’ve heard nothing!
I’ve fallen out with best friend over her childs lies
I’ve not slept
I’ve not ate
DS refusal school everyday but I do get him in.
Nobody rings me back!
Senco emails saying they will ring every time I email and they don’t.
Deputy said he would Ring last week after me being threatened with police. Nothing. I feel like I’m picking staff at random when I call as everyone I should be able to speak to never communicates back to me.
I’m loosing plot and I’m loosing focus.
Thinking about leaving it till next week and starting paper trail but going straight to the head.
Inclusion head said he needs to man up. I brushed it off but now it seems like their attitude is to think I will stop bothering them and he’s in the wrong ( I only Ring/email to ask once a week , I’m not nagging )

Help me plan I don’t even know what day it is lately

Said he would change his timetable 3 weeks ago to get away from some bullies he’s still in the same class :(
I have no control and my sons spiriting on a downward trend and I’m scared. I’m scared am I nagging ? Am I being unreasonable or is this acceptable behaviour nowadays from staff and students ?
He’s got forecast bs I can’t seeing sitting a gcse at this rate he’s only doing about 3 classes a week he’s to scared to do anymore, he only goes up for English & maths as they guilt tripped him saying he’s missing too much.
Ps private phscologist said he’s hitting depression giving him 10 sessions then medicating. All because of school !
I’ve tried to move him he won’t leave the one girl who talks to him. I’m scared he will self harm if I do something against his wishes but he would be out of their if it was mine!
Sorry to ramble 😭

OP posts:
justsomeone1 · 21/11/2017 13:40

You have all been so kind to offer advice.

After picking apart the anti bullying they don’t do any of it!

So tonight I will be emailing the deputy head where my DS hasn’t had the support the policy offers

Also emailed the attendance officer as I’ve just noticed he’s down as unauthorised when I paid 30 pound on gp letters to cover him for his MH.

Thank you ladies. I have a plan now and feel much more in control !
Whether it works is another matter !

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noblegiraffe · 21/11/2017 15:45

No, go to the head straight away with this, the school hasn’t been following its own policy and you’ve been fobbed off enough already. Like the PP said give a Friday deadline for a response and then escalate (governors next).

Weeks you’ve given them to sort this!

Astronotus · 21/11/2017 16:38

Yes, agree with noble, go to the head, top man/woman.

Unauthorised absences - I noticed 2 unauthorised days on my DC's report for 2 days when they were actually in school! All parents, check those attendance records if you can - too many human mistakes made!

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