It's because OP would be paying for Independent. When people are paying they often feel they should receive the best. When something is free, somehow it doesn't seem quite so important.
The thing is though, that top indies are very selective. They are often very expensive too, but crucially most people won't get in....so if you won't make it into a very competitive grammar, you probably won't be looking at a top tier indie either.
This thread shows me how lots of people have all kinds of preconceptions about schools and the school their child must attend, without having visited such schools or knowing much about them.
Common preconceptions;
- Grammar must always be better regardless of anything else
- All Grammars are the same or all Comos are the same
- Comps exist alongside Grammars
- indies are always high performing
- Comps always have lots of disruption or perform worse than Grammars for all kids
- Prep school always gives a btter chance of getting into Grammar than state, even if tutors are used
You cannot simply pick an area to move to which you haven't visited a number of times, based on an ofsted report of a school, league table or because the county has grammars. Loads of things have to drive where you live and then where you educate your child, including;
- where you actually like
- where the this of the area fits you
- where you can get to work
- where you can afford to live
- where there are schools for all of your family
- where there are schools which will meet the needs of each individual child well
- where there are schools you like and will meet the admissions criteria of
OP really wants to avoid her child mixing with the disruptive element. That can never be guaranteed even in an independent or grammar.
It is less likely in a grammar or independent.
However there is no guarantee of getting into a grammar and for an independent you need both the money and ability to pass the test.
If you live in a fully grammar area you have to accept the risk of failing the exam and being left with the non-selective option which cannot be a Comp, because a % have been creamed off.
If you move to a Comp area and live very very close you are likely to get in. However Comps can decline or rise in quality, so again there is no guarantee.
You can mitigate against uncertainty but you can never remove it.