"Now "class angst" that you will find in abundance in grammar schools with those parents desperate to keep their precious babies away from the working classes."
Now that really makes me cross.
Every parent makes choices for their children.
If I had charge of designing a school system, I would not be using grammar schools, mainly because as a society I don't think it is best for everyone - 20 % go to grammar and the rest get what's left - isn't to me a good education system for a whole society.
But you know what? I live in a town with crap secondary schools. It even made headline news last year when one of the MPs went onto the news and said all our schools are crap!
The reasons are complex, and I'm not going into them here.
But we live near the county boundary, and over the border there are grammar schools.
my kids took the test and passed, and are both at those schools. I am grabbing hold of a good education for them, as many parents do. I can't afford to move to the naice town down the road which has fantastic comprhensive schools (do to being in a expensive area) so I have made the system work for us.
At primary it was really important for me that my kids mixed with everyone, and got to know and have friends from all backgrounds etc.
But as we got towards the end of primary, I realised, as ThinkFast says, that they were struggling, that they were picked on for being clever and that they were struggling to find a group they fitted with.
I am doing the best for them, as any parent is and it is bollocks to say it is because it is anything to do with class.
We still live in our majority working class town, and the kids are still friends with neighbours etc from primary who live in our street.